Re: Mariner 75hp 89 model
Poppet on mine ('02 90 hp 3 cyl) is next to the stat. One cover covers both of them. Standing behind he engine the cover is sitting on top of the water jacket that covers the entire rear of the powerhead. Real easy to tell what it is. The hole in the poppet is maybe 4 x the area of the stat.
Personally, with your symptons, I'd leave the poppet alone. Seems to be doing it's job.
If, at a later date it fails, you can worry about it then. If it fails on you while out on the water, you can get home by running slowly.......cooling the engine from the tstat opening.
I didn't even buy a new gasket for the cover. Prised it off carefully and put it back on with blue RTV. No problem.