Question on boating ettique

jcherbert1

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I recently had engine troubles on the lake where somone offered to tow my boat. So, of course I took them up on this offer. While in tow his rope broke and was replaced with one of mine. We got back to the ramp and trailered the boat. I offered to pay him for his help in which he declined, so I gave him my name & number in case there was ever anything I could ever do in return in my range of work.
A week later, he calls me to tell me that later on the day of the incident, he discovered that his boat was not operating properly. He took it to a repair shop where they discovered rope wrapped around the inside of his prop and that it broke off a tooth somewhere in the lower unit.
He is now requesting that I pay the $1000.00 to repair the damage. I am not sure of the right thing to do since it seems to be a freak accident from my point of view.
 

JB

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Re: Question on boating ettique

Not your responsibility.
 

craig stevens

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Re: Question on boating ettique

i agree its not your responsibility and it is a freak accident. but if he has pictures showing it was the broken tow rope that caused the damage i would split it with him or at least pay what a tow would have cost. its a good size bill for him to pay for trying to help someone
 

kenmyfam

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I would not say it was your responsibility. Shame but I would be making certain that the rope was good before towing anything. My family on ski's and tube come immediately to mind and also i have towed a few in this season and use a rope that is in excellent condition and about 3 times the strength needed.
 

kyle f

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If the rope got tangled after the snap as he pulled you, then something odd should have shown up during the rest of the trip in or very shortly after he returned to the water. In which case he should have known quick enough to call you that night and told you somethign odd happened after the tow and he was taking his boat in.

I guess, if you don't believe him... offer him the amount of money that you feel his help was worth to save you the grief of being dead in the water. Say $100 bucks or so.

If you do believe him, offer to pay half since it was such a freak accident.
 

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I offered to pay him for his help in which he declined, so I gave him my name & number in case there was ever anything I could ever do in return in my range of work.

after he declined payment, it the whole event gets chalked up to karma and is done. you may have opened a can of worms giving him your number but this repair bill is not your problem.
 

mbhenry

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Re: Question on boating ettique

How did his rope tangle in his prop as he is moving foward??
Sounds like he doesn't know how to handle his boat.
If the rope broke, why didn't he bring it in before continuing??
Did he back over his broken rope?

NOT YOUR PROBLEM!!!
 

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Not your problem, but if you know this guy, maybe pay half for a friends sake.
 

SpinnerBait_Nut

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How did his rope tangle in his prop as he is moving foward??
Sounds like he doesn't know how to handle his boat.
If the rope broke, why didn't he bring it in before continuing??
Did he back over his broken rope?

NOT YOUR PROBLEM!!!
Ditto, if after the rope broke, he went to backing up, then what has that got to do with you.
Kinda hard to get said rope in one's prop when moving forward like was stated.
 

jtexas

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Re: Question on boating ettique

his rope? unless it was your knot that you tied on your boat, it was his fault, no doubt about it.

Boating etiquette doesn't apply in this case...you have to look to regular etiquette, in my opinion...the guy has an equipment problem that happened while he was assisting you...if you were in a position to send a couple hundred bucks, it'd be a real nice thing to do...if you're not in that position, or just don't want to...that's ok, too...like if your neigbor breaks his own chainsaw while he's helping you clear a fallen tree from your yard - except of course you don't have to live next door to this guy.
 

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Whether or not he was assisting you, he is responsible for his own boat. When the line broke, he should have made sure everything was cleared from the water before attempting to operate his boat again. His failure to skipper his boat properly does not make you responsible for his equipment. If I had been in his shoes, I would never have mentioned it to you much less asked you to pay for it. I would have been too embarassed to admit my own stupidity.
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Re: Question on boating ettique

My inclination would be to pay him the fair cost of the tow, maybe a bit more. But at this time that could also be seen as an admision of guilt if this end up in court.
 

jcherbert1

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Re: Question on boating ettique

Thanks all for your input. I think that this is all over now, at least on my part. He did call back & tell me that now his mechanic is telling him that some type of pin broke on the pinion due to the stress placed on the motor pulling my boat. Since he has given two different stories on what caused the damage, I offered to pay him for the tow & nothing more. Of course he declined and hung up the phone on me. Oh well, it's water under the bridge now.
 

freddyray21

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I would not pay him nor offer to pay him anything. It doesn't take much of a motor to pull another boat. If something broke because he towed you it was going to break when he was pulling a skier or getting on plane eventually.
 

kenmyfam

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How fast was he towing you in ???
Not much stress if the speed is low once you are moving.
Whatever the "pin" was it was going to break anyway by the sounds of it.
 

Nandy

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ohh, a pin now... dont give him a penny. He is a liar...
 

skimmer

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Re: Question on boating ettique

I towed a 5.0 metre fibreglass once with an 11 foot dinghy with a 8hp johnny, no probs.
 

pgdignan

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sounds like a scammer in action, I had a guy tow my 3 ton plus sailboat out of the harbor once with nothing more than an inflatable zodiac and an 8 hp motor. Anything can happen on the water his engine/driveline could have been ready to go at any moment. You shouldn't be paying for his voluntary activities and possibly deferred maintenance.
 

SuperNova

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You two guys don't know each other do you?:D
 
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