Honoring our war heroes

JB

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For a lot of us honoring war dead is kind of impersonal, except, of course, for those who have had a loved one or close friends give all for our country.

I lost friends in Korea and Nam and I have had acquaintances lose sons in the Middle East, but the losses that hurt me most were a group of young men that I knew for only a few days.

I grew up in the Southern Pines/Pinehurst area of the NC Sandhills. Today it is known as golf country, but in 1943 it was airborne training country. Fort Bragg and Camp Mackall were nearby.

I think it was the spring of 1943 that the 101st Airborne held maneuvers in our neighborhood. One squad set up a position in our back yard, digging foxholes and camoflaging the resulting mounds of sand.

Mom sent my sister and me out to take them hot coffee and sandwiches. My sister, who was on the threshold of puberty, thought that their Sergeant, Sandy, was the most beautiful human being she had ever seen. We made friends with the whole squad and swapped them coffee and sandwiches for chocolate from their K rations. I was entranced by their tales of training and jumping out of airplanes. In just a few days they were gone. . . shipped out for England.

My Sis wroted to Sandy regularly and treasured his letters.

Then, in January of 1945, one of her letters was returned along with a letter from a Captain telling her that Sandy and his squad had treasured her letters and that they had been very good for their morale. . .reminding them weekly what they were fighting for. But, he said, the entire squad had been overwhelmed and died in battle at Bastogne. He offered condolences.

To this day my most poignant memories of that war are of Sandy and his small band of boys who cheerfully and fearlessly went off to save Freedom and Liberty for us. . . for my Sis. . . and today, I imagine, rest in a Flanders Field for eternity. May they rest in honored glory.
 
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Great story even though it was sad. My dad enterd the war before D-day with Patton in north africa. Same outfit as Audy Murphy. He chased after and was chased by rommels tanks and one of the first american soldiers to liberate the german death camps towards the end of the war. He passed 2 years ago at the age of 87 and I tell this story every time that its fiting. My respect to anyone wearing or has worn the uniform.
 

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When I was stationed in Germany, one of my friends was transferred to Viet Nam. This was early on and they went over on a ship instead of flying. He was shot and killed as he walked down the gangplank. I still think of him often.
 

SS MAYFLOAT

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Nice story JB

My wife and I went to the cemetary where her dad and mom were laid to rest. One cannot get a grasp on how many gave their life until you have visited a cemetary on Memorial Day.

My wife took me over to a gravesite where more than the usual decorations are displayed on the graves. On the wreath of flowers there was a note. On that note it read......

Dear Dad,
I'm so sorry that I never got the chance to meet you, but you have been in my heart for 44 years. With Love, your son Peter


That sorta got me all choked up. My wife said that he comes to his fathers grave very often and that he does this every year. I looked down at the grass in front of the marker, and it was clearly visible that the grass was worn.

God Bless all of them
 

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What bothers me (early Nam Vet)..is some, and way to many, do not understand MEMORIAL DAY
Its for those who gave ALL, and no longer among us.
Its not for the living Service men/woman.
Thats VETERANS DAY.
BIL and his brother both flew over whatever WW2, in B-25's, dropping bombs. Have a pic of both standing in front a the same plane. His brother was shot down and killed a few days later..
Thats what today is all about..."those who gave all"..so the rest can start a good front yard fire in the pit, torch the grill, and share a silent moment "for those"...."nuff outta me...been there...lived, and now another log on the fire..with the neighbors..(one Korean Vet..71), waiting on me to bring out a few more beers..(damn shop Laptop always on) cause I survived Nam...and can still if needed..in any other war...But gotta be "my rules of engagement"...not the politicos BS...
Whens the last war we won? WW2. Korea never figured, Nam, 2nd place.
The latest?...the US "economy"...Gov contracts for war stuff...uggghhh.
Sick and tired of what the US has become...we have balls..leaders sure don't..."nuff"..me..bad topic..Good, but bad same time..too many "rules"...(Bush.."shock and awe"..we have won the war"..BS..that was how many years ago?
 

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I share your frustration about Memorial Day being treated as day to honor veterans and current servers, SCAATY.

A memorial honors those who died, not we who survived or the wonderful young men and women who now serve. We have our days.

My generation of survivors and the current generation certainly deserve honor, but to do so now dilutes the real meaning of Memorial Day.

A dear friend , whom I love dearly, called me today to say that she had purchased flags to honor my service and that of my son and daughter and planted them along with thousands of others on the walk to her church. She even offered me wishes for a happy Veterans Day. :(

It is sad. As much as I appreciate the thought I am saddened that a memorial to those who have offered the supreme sacrifice is diluted by lack of understanding of what Memorial Day is about.

I suppose that is not as bad as those who see it only as a day to go play, with no observance for those who gave us this day.
 

Scaaty

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I share your frustration about Memorial Day being treated as day to honor veterans and current servers, SCAATY.

A memorial honors those who died, not we who survived or the wonderful young men and women who now serve. We have our days.

My generation of survivors and the current generation certainly deserve honor, but to do so now dilutes the real meaning of Memorial Day.

A dear friend , whom I love dearly, called me today to say that she had purchased flags to honor my service and that of my son and daughter and planted them along with thousands of others on the walk to her church. She even offered me wishes for a happy Veterans Day. :(

It is sad. As much as I appreciate the thought I am saddened that a memorial to those who have offered the supreme sacrifice is diluted by lack of understanding of what Memorial Day is about.

I suppose that is not as bad as those who see it only as a day to go play, with no observance for those who gave us this day.

JB, we are on the same wavelength. I have an old since Kindergarten friend, both touching 60 soon, still a "hottie" my book (first kiss at probably 6 years old!..experimenting "youth") that does more than I can even think of. She's TIRELESS. She wanted so bad to go to Vietnam and "Nurse", but the dad..(super person, 4 daughters)..said no way. and she is/was/still is/ well qualified. Ended up the old HS "Nurse" for decades
Married a Nam Vet later in life, and he is my age (58). Did many motorcycle rides, but sold the bike a few back. Dude is riddled 'Agent Orange". Bones all screwed up, and eyesight ...well, he's just about blind now.
She went on a mission to help "those"..still not knowing what they are headed for.
Runs a organization that sends care packages to the troops.
"OPERATION STARS & STRIPES"
JB, do you remember that WW2 (?) poster of the Nurse, in the hat, that no matter where you sat in the room, the "eyes" followed you? Have one here VFW Hall. Man , thats one "collectible" my book. Nurses in Nam were ..well..can't "splain"
Anyway. Meredith..(we call her Dithy..or "Beans")..has done SO MUCH, and STILL DOES TIRELESSLY, for the kids overseas, she simply amazes me. And such a sweet person.
 

Bob_VT

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I think in the spirit of the Scaaty's post IMO it should stay.

There are hundreds of similar programs available geographically in the USA.


I was pleased yesterday when I visited the VT Veterans Cemetary with the amount of flowers..... There had been a significant amount of visitors. It's good to see support.
 

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I have posted some very opinionated post's on this forum. I am very pro American.......My grand father deserteded the german army just prior to hitler taking power...i could go on telling stories of the brown shirts. But the final gist was none of my aunt's or unkles were allowd to speak german.............it was disgraceful.

My father lived korea, we could never get him to camp out, he served 4 years in bitter cold and lost his farm due to the draft...but he went, due to my grandfather's orders on serving humanity.

At the age of 7 our local community block lost Ronnie Rich, he was 18....the oldest boy on the block and he made sure that all of kids got to play base baseball with everyone. Kids of all ages form seven to god i can only guess now to maybe 12 or so... It was a simpliler time...Thank You Ronnie..... He's gone now......booze (VietNam)

I can only say this......No medal's of honor....No big write ups....but at the age of fifty i will start speaking up, good men gave up there future for us....we are not a spoiled nation....some of our ...no a tremendous amount of our greatest asset's have left this world making it a better place for all of humanity....Ronnie Head's up thank's for the lesson's...it just took me 40 yrs to be a proud american again....We all need to look in the mirror again and remeber just how much this country gave for the world. And for us all
 
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