Re: adding 2nd battery for stereo
The wire from your alternator connects directly to your main battery. If you connect your second battery to the alt you are connecting both batteries together causing them to drain at the same time no matter what you do.
You want to be able to save a fresh battery right?
So here goes.
What you need is a way to select which battery you want to use at a given time. This leaves the un-selected battery unused and fully charged. One way to do it is to use a 1-2-both battery switch like this one:
The way it works is before you start the engine set the switch to the "Both" position and start the engine. Leave the dock and go have fun, ski, ride, pickup women, whatever. Then when you stop and shut down the engine switch to number "2" position. (this disconnects the number 1 battery from everything and supplies power from only battery number 2) While you are stopped be sure to play the stereo way too loud, charge your cell, and generally consume all the power you want.
Before starting the engine again be sure to switch to the "Both" position on your battery switch. Start the engine and go have fun. (this will effectively turn both batteries into one big battery charging them both until their combined voltage reaches a fully charged level)
This setup works ok if you do not run your accessory (house) battery down too much AND you have a good alternator on your boat.
There are many options to fix the dead battery problem. This is only one of them. It is a subject of great debate in here and there are many posts on the subject. Try the search features of the board to do some more research if you like...... or just stay tuned. Some other folks in here may chime in, I hope.

BTW- Remember to switch the switch! If you leave it on "Both", you drain both!
