Re: plowing!!
As others have said, weight distribution is important.
But, looking at pics of that boat, I can see you've got a couple interesting features there. The planing fin that runs on the side of the pontoon chambers is one. I presume it's there to help get on plane and stay there without an excessively huge engine (planing pontoons are a relatively new design).
The fin works like any other fin.. if the front end of it dives into a wave, or for some reason gets pushed underwater at the front of the boat due to weight distribution or the boat naturally settles nose first after planing, it'll keep going straight until buoyancy pushes it back to the surface. So I wonder if you're digging your bow in when stopping.
The fact that it works well with 4 people makes me tend to believe your problems with digging in are weight related... maybe not even in distribution of weight, but maybe in total capacity. Manufacturers are usually generous with capacity plates.. 1850 lbs would be safe, but you won't get anywhere near as good performance as with say 1000 lbs. Plus extra weight adds up. Figure 750 lbs for four adults, 210 lbs of fuel (30 gal tank), and a cooler of beer and you're already over 1000. Six adults with fishing gear, a cooler, and fuel might easily be 1300 or more.
It may be in the case of your pontoon that performance and handling degrades fast when you add passengers, so that it can handle like a planing hull boat with a few, but any more and you have to fall back to being the old style "heavy and slow" pontoon. I was sure surprised when I saw my first pontoon on plane
Erik