Re: Rectifier
The rectifier is fried, no doubt about that. Now as to your problem of the ground wire heating up. I'm going to assume that you mean the main ground wire going from the battery to the engine block as you did not get specific.
A ground wire heating up usually a good indicator for a high resistance in the circuit. This can be from broken strands along the wire path or at the terminal lugs, poor electrical bond between the terminal end and the battery or block or corrosion at the bolt used to terminate the ground at the engine. Strands break from mishandling which usually happens when parts are removed for salvage.
The fried voltage regulator may not have anything to do with the ground heating up.
Since you are mating two different systems, you need to start at the switch and go wire to wire to determine what it is that is connected to what. The switch is going to be the key to the success of the operations.
I suggest that you go with the required switch for a Force engine as it will be easier to match up the wires that way.
Don't count on the boat mechanic to do anything but put a hit on your pocket book. They are usually specialist on one system. You have an hybrid and have to do things differently.
There is a wealth of experience on this board if you are willing to have patience and work with us.
Tashasdaddy and Silvertip hang out on the electical, electronics board. You may want to cross post this there and see what input they have.
Regards,
John