Re: Why do I have to "make an offer"?
...I'm asked for discounts all the time. Some buyers feel that they have an obligation to ask for discounts -regardless of if it's legal or not....when they know it's not legal and ask anyway,
OK- educate me: Why on earth would asking for a better price be illegal?!
Second: I generally pay what is asked of me from people I know. I stop doing business with those who take advantage of me; it has happened a few times, but not often with people I know. Or I pay the asked price if I know it is a fair price; I educate myself as consumer and know what a fair price is. But if I know there is a lot of margin (car parts, for example) or know the reputation of the supplier/seller for gouging, or whatever- I will either ask for "X"-dollars or will say I was prepared to pay "Y"- can you match that? Sometimes I have said "is that the best you can do" but not frequently.
Speaking of car parts; I have friends "in the business" of auto repair and parts, so I feel at an advantage in that area. Here is an actual event when my ex-wife broke down. Had her get it to a nearby garage as I was working and couldn't check it out. Ford ignit module from local garage in an emergency: $78. They walked just down the street to the parts store to get it. I refused to pay the full bill for other reasons ($380 bill for a Ford Escort "tuneup" parts and labor when I told them I wanted an estimate for anything above $100

. All it really needed was the ignit module). So after some

words, I walked across the street and priced the parts- over the counter: said ignition module was $28
from the same supplier! Then I called me FIL, who works for another parts store, and asked what "garage" column was for same part: $14 and change. If I didn't know better I would have paid the $380 for the "repairs." Instead, now educated, I paid them their labor rate for just 2 hours, plus the plugs, wires and ignition module at the price *I* could buy them for. Think it was like $160ish. They still made money on the parts, and it sure didn't take them 6 hours (or shouldn't have!) to figure out the ignition module and give it cap, rotor, plugs, and wires.
So why should we haggle? Because it keeps the questionable honest, and lets the honest shine.
