As close as I want to come....

Rocky_Road

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This happened to me (and two others) just hours ago?.

I invited my neighbor to join the wife and me on a little jaunt out in the Gulf of Mexico. We departed around noon, and the weather was as good as it gets. Everything went as smooth as pie all the way out to my chosen anchor spot.

Once anchored about 5 miles from shore, the wife and friend wanted to do some swimming. This is no big deal?we have swam from the boat just about every trip to this spot. In they both go?.

After a few minutes I became concerned about the ?bride??she seemed to be having some trouble and had drifted a ways from the stern, and our friend Barbara was right next to her and called out that Laura seemed to be ?tiring?. My first response was to grab a life jacket and dived off the stern. I reached her and got her into the vest, and then noticed that all three of us were farther from the boat than just minutes ago. We were all caught in a rip current?.

No matter how hard Barbara and I swam, we were being taken further from the boat. My wife tried to paddle to the boat, but she made less headway than we did. As the boat became a speck?and Barbara and I were totally out of energy?I told Barbara and Laura to conserve what energy they still had left, and look (and listen) for another boater.

This went on for what seemed like forever?and I can attest that I didn?t have much hope of treading water for much longer. Barbara is 10 years younger than us, but seemed to be not far behind. There were no boats on the horizon, and I could only say to them that we weren?t far from the channel, and anyone coming in would have to pass us.

Then we heard?than saw?a center counsel Key West boat hauling for the marina. We waved as hard as we could, and the Key West turned from the channel into our general direction. But he passed at WOT between us and our barely visible boat! We kept waving at him, and then he finally came to a halt. He came around, and picked us up starting with Laura, and ending with me.

The Key West driver had several female friends on board, and he told me that when he first saw us he assumed that we were waving him off for our safety! The female passenger is the one that suggested to him we were waving way too much for that. That is what got him to stop. The real kicker is that he told us that he played ?hooky? from work today to get on the water.

Lots of things learned this day?too numerous to post.
 

AndrewsArk

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Re: As close as I want to come....

Wow. We do this often in Lake Michigan which has taken numerous lives this year from this very same thing. Very happy to hear that everyone is okay.

I guess you never can be too careful when it comes to boating.
 

DaNinja

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Re: As close as I want to come....

We had a similar experience when the boat/bimini caught the wind and was drifting faster than my dad could swim to it. When I saw his futile efforts, I powered up and went back for him.

Normally my swimmers have a jacket even if they are bobbing in it while wearing it upside-down like a diaper.

I don't think I would've left the helm in your situation.
 

eaglejim

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Re: As close as I want to come....

If I am not mistaken and I could be wrong on this but when caught in a rip current isn't swim 20 to 25 feet left or right?I think I remember that from my old ocean days,along with if attack by a shark shove your arm up his gills and your fingers in his eyeball,anyway glad you guys are all right
 

12vMan

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Re: As close as I want to come....

Last year a couple died in Lake Mead because their boat drifted away in the wind too fast to catch.
I stay on the boat if everyone else jumps in, or I tie a leash line to myself.

Glad your 'wake up call' turned out ok.
 

Triton II

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Re: As close as I want to come....

Wow Rocky, glad the outcome was good, and thanks for reminding us all that it's complacency that can kill. You're brave to share this story, I'll show it to my kids who are at that "bulletproof" age - old enough to vote but not old enough to know much! Thanks again.

TII
 

Rocky_Road

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Re: As close as I want to come....

I don't think I would've left the helm in your situation.

Like I said: 'Lots of things learned this day?too numerous to post.'

Thinking back with 20/20 vision, I probably should have done this.

But...given that I only saw my wife of 42 years in trouble, I did what came natural and tried to get her into a life vest. I had no idea that they were in rip current, and I am not sure if that would have made any difference.

Logic says that I should have gotten off of the hook...started the engine (not always a swift process)...and manuvered to her. But what if all of this was the difference between her living and the other? Too much for me to absorb....

I could have also used the free line of the anchor rope to allow us to pull ourselves out of the rip current. But this is all Monday Quarterbacking...that never came to mind. This would have been a perfect solution. I had only one thing in mind...get a life vest to my wife.

In the end, I did what I wanted to do...get my wife out of a drowning situation. But I put myself into the same situation, and did nothing for my friend. That is something that I will have to live with.

Like I said: 'Lots of things learned this day?too numerous to post.'
 

180shabah

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Re: As close as I want to come....

This should be a wake up call for everyone.

Glad we didn't have to read about this in the obits...
 

Mark42

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Re: As close as I want to come....

I know how hard it is to resist the temptation to jump in and save someone who is in trouble. Been there and jumped in.....:eek:

So glad you were found so quickly.

Might want to take the time to write it all down on one sheet of paper, have it laminated and keep in the boat just as a reminder of what happened that day, and the correct actions to be taken printed on the back side.

Just a thought.

Seeing as everything worked out well, it is a great story to tell at parties!
 

NelsonQ

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Re: As close as I want to come....

Two important statements say it all:

'He came around, and picked us up starting with Laura, and ending with me.'

'Lots of things learned this day?too numerous to post.'


Glad to see the outcome allowed you to post/share this story. You were fortunate and sharing this information may help others in the future.
 

Thajeffski

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Re: As close as I want to come....

People always look at me funny when I suggest they take some kind of float with them AND when I throw a 150 foot floating line out behind the boat when swimmers are around.

However, you won't believe how they change their minds when they get in the water. Next thing you know they are hangin on to that line for their lives!
 

eavega

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Re: As close as I want to come....

I used to live in Florida, and was an avid SCUBA diver. The first thing we did at anchor before anyone got in the water was to throw out a drift line; 100 to 200 feet with a buoy on the end. Nothing worse than coming up from a 30 or 40 minute dive to find that you drifted on ascent and now had another swim on the surface with 50 Lbs of gear strapped to you. Don't know if that would've saved the day, but still something I do on my boat even if we are just going for a swim.

-E
 

dbkerley

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Re: As close as I want to come....

I'm glad to hear you and everyone else survived. This merits a well written sticky thread with survival and prevention advice (such as the drift line) Maybe some moderator will undertake that project. HINT HINT

We always require life jackets on when in the water or underway and someone has to stay in the boat whenever anyone is swimming. I normally throw out a drift line or am dragging a tube also. There are additional throw lines on the boat and I keep my knife on all the time in case I have to "raise" anchor in a hurry.

Whenever I prepare for an emergency, I never seem to have one. It always happens when I'm distracted and doing something else.

This also reminded me of a lake incident in which someone stripped the life jacket from an uninjured child to prevent his own drowning. There are two things I know about that one:

1. I would never have believed it could have happened

2. I have no idea how someone can live with that.
 

dbkerley

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Re: As close as I want to come....

I used to live in Florida, and was an avid SCUBA diver. The first thing we did at anchor before anyone got in the water was to throw out a drift line; 100 to 200 feet with a buoy on the end. Nothing worse than coming up from a 30 or 40 minute dive to find that you drifted on ascent and now had another swim on the surface with 50 Lbs of gear strapped to you. Don't know if that would've saved the day, but still something I do on my boat even if we are just going for a swim.

-E

4 feet of water and a strong outgoing tide can make you VERY THANKFUL for that safety line you struggled with a few hours earlier.
 

jollymon

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Re: As close as I want to come....

It is old and corny, but the saying for someone in trouble in the water is:

Reach
Throw
Row
Go,


The very last thing you want to do is to get in the water with them, you have a big potential for mutiple victims at that point.

I am gald this one had a happy ending.
 

windsors03cobra

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Re: As close as I want to come....

Couple folks died in Lake Michigan last week from the exact same thing, not even far off shore.
 

JRJ

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Re: As close as I want to come....

Thanks for posting. Some passengers don't understand, but I don't let anybody off the boat without a PFD.
 

gonefishie

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Re: As close as I want to come....

Wow, I now have a different perspective on the throwable pfd that we're required to have on our boat.
 

badkins50

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Re: As close as I want to come....

Thanks for posting. Some passengers don't understand, but I don't let anybody off the boat without a PFD.

Agreed. No-one off the boat without a PFD. I don't care who it is. Glad everyone is ok and you are here to tell the story.
 

Thad

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Re: As close as I want to come....

WOW, I dare say you are all lucky. Being watched over for sure.

Glad you are all safe.
 
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