Re: 1973 Evinrude 65hp 65373S Fuel leak trough spark-plug holes
Your motor has Hydro-Electric Shift. Altogether different than "Electric Shift" Hydro electric is shifted by hydraulic oil pressure. The electric part only activates a couple of oil flow control valves.
FIRST thing to do is check the oil in the lower unit. Is it full and no water in it? Is it the correct oil? Evinrude "Premium Blend", or generic "Type C".
Once you resolve that question, and it still doesn't shift, check the voltages at the blue and green wires by the powerhead. They go down to the lower unit. Slide the insulators back and check them with a multimeter, wires still connected. There should be battery voltage on the green wire with the neutral button pushed (key on). There should be voltage on BOTH the green and blue wires with the reverse button pushed. If it fails, there is an electrical problem, usually the push button switch is bad. ($$$$)
If it passes the voltage test, and still no shift, trouble is in the lower unit. ($$$$$$$)
BTW, avoid letting it grind. That is wearing the clutch dog and reverse gear, creating fine metal chips. The metal chips get into the piston in the oil pump, and it will never work again without tearing it down and cleaning the chips out. That may be the problem already.