I have the drive plate that is item 20, but the bolt and lock washer is the same part number for both (even though they have different item numbers).
I did not want to reuse the old flywheel bolts or drive plate bolts and lock washers so I had ordered new parts from Mercruiser.
The new bolts are also flange bolts but slightly different than the old ones. The old ones were threaded all the way to the bolt head. The new ones have a small shoulder under the head of the bolt that is a snug fit in the drive plate mounting holes. This seems to eliminate any slop and hopefully centers the drive plate better than the old bolts. Also the lock washers do not fit over the shoulder on the new bolt. I'm sure if you tightened the bolt, the lock washer would spread open, but that just doesn't seem right to me.
I called Mercruiser tech support. They are supposed to get back to me in a couple days. They are checking to see if a change was implemented at some point. I looked at the drawing for the new Mercury 6.2L engine and they no longer use a lock washer under the head of those bolts