Diary of a 30something single guy..

snapperbait

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Dear Diary.... Your gonna love this one..

Now, Diary.. You know my luck with the opposite sex is so bad that it constitues a joke... The worst of the worst seem to find me.. Drunks..Flakes..Addicts..Psychopaths..Single moms with half a dozen kids...Sometimes all of the above..

Anywhoo.. I went out for dinner last night.. Nothing special.. Same old usual place.. Same old usual waitress that's been giving me the eye for a while now... Last week, she passed along her # on the back of the bill, all decorated with little hearts and smiley faces and a little note, "call me sometime"...... She's not really what I'm looking for in a potential mate, but she seemed kinda nice.. kinda quiet too.. I figured i'd hang onto her # and maybe we'd go have lunch sometime, just for ****s and giggles...

Back to last night.......The place was just dead... Aside from the staff, there were'nt but 4 other souls in the place... I sit at my usual spot at the bar, iced tea sitting there waiting for me before my butt hits the seat... The waitress in question comes over and we exchange the "Hey! how are ya?".... So me being the smart-*** that I am, I ask her, "SO?.. You been staying out of trouble?"... At that point she cocked her head a bit and looked at me kind of funny for a few seconds and says "yup, I'm being a good girl"..

After a little bit more conversation she says "It seems like I know you from somewhere else, other than here".. I said "well, anything's possible.. I've lived here forever".. She walks over to the soda fountain a few feet away and while she's pouring a coke for someone, she asks me "do you go to?"........................"umm,nah, nevermind".. She took the coke to the table in the back, then returned a few minutes later...

We talked a little more here and there during the course of my dinner, mostly commenting on what's on the TV... I finished up, had another glass of tea while she brought the bill over.. She pops the bill down and says "I swear I know you from somewhere else"..............."Do you go to meetings?".....:eek:

Now having dealt with a drunk GF for the majority of last year, I can't rip on somebody for being a recovering alcoholic.. That takes alot of guts to admit when you have a problem, and I gave her thumbs-up for doing so...:cool:

But to ask someone you barely know, and obviously want to get to know better, "do you go to meetings?"..... e-gad...
 

jinx

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Re: Diary of a 30something single guy..

Well she could of asked if you were a friend of Bill. Or, alternatively, perhaps she is a Quaker:)
 

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Re: Diary of a 30something single guy..

Have you seen Fight Club the movie.......??? Meetings ... Good luck!
 

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Re: Diary of a 30something single guy..

On 2nd thought.......... you never really answered her question!!
 

snapperbait

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Re: Diary of a 30something single guy..

<is Bill, Jinx... She and I are on a first name basis..

And yes, Bob.. I answered her question...;) Even told her how I wished my ex GF would straighten up and go...
 

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Re: Diary of a 30something single guy..

Snapper, my man, I am coming to your neck of the woods the end of June, do I have to straighten you out then??? I am starting to worry about the women you attract ... I will be quiet now :D ;)

Good night!
 

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Re: Diary of a 30something single guy..

But to ask someone you barely know, and obviously want to get to know better, "do you go to meetings?"..... e-gad...

I don't get it.
What's wrong with her asking?
Maybe thats what she is looking for, a man that has cleaned up his act.
I know many people that go to meetings.
Most of the people I trust, go to meetings.
 

snapperbait

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Re: Diary of a 30something single guy..

I think i'm a target because my act is clean, and it always has been....

Aspeck.. I dunno if i'll be in town around the end of june.. Might be taking a cruise about that time.. I'm not at the controls on setting the date, as i'll be going as a guest..;) I'll keep ya informed..
 

mikeandronda

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Re: Diary of a 30something single guy..

"So me being the smart-*** that I am, I ask her, "SO?.. You been staying out of trouble?"... At that point she cocked her head a bit and looked at me kind of funny for a few seconds and says "yup, I'm being a good girl".."


Well heres my thought...... Im a recovering party animal and I aint had a drink in almost 8 yrs. If someone asks me if Im behaving it right away triggers the memories of not behaving and maybe that is why she thought that that is where she may have seen you before.......or maybe not......justy a thought :D
 

bjcsc

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Re: Diary of a 30something single guy..

Finally somebody with some sense!

Agreed!! Come on, Oprah, let's get to the brass tax. Don't hinge the world on some inferrence made on what could be just a random statement. Maybe she is as nervous as you are. Maybe she thought you were in a similar situation because you go to a bar to drink iced tea. Cut her some slack.

The hotter she is, the more slack you cut her.

Now back to the question at hand...
 

LadyFish

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Re: Diary of a 30something single guy..

Maybe since you never order a drink, she was testing YOU to see if you were recovering. lol
 

Kenneth Brown

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Re: Diary of a 30something single guy..

Now you KNOW women ain't that smart Ladyfish.! ")
 

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Re: Diary of a 30something single guy..

It's time to change your choice of bars and resturants!!
 

snapperbait

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Re: Diary of a 30something single guy..

As of last evening, there are a few new blips (I said BLIPS) on the radar scope.... Targets are not yet in range.. Will proceed with extreeme caution... Over and out....

note to self: Take Aspeck shark fishing..:D :p
 
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