Re: Do you feel the difference?
Well, I never did it with that package but have done it on outboards. I don't think there would be any real difference between outboard and inboard/outboard powered hulls.
With the outboards, there is a real difference of about 200 RPM and 1 or 2 MPH MORE with the SAME BRAND, SAME MODEL prop in stainless. Since different brands and models have different blade area, blade design, effective pitch, and rake, there is no comparison directly between--say--stock aluminum and aftermarket stainless props or various brands of props.. In fact, you can not even compare two different brands of stainless because different designs perform differently. That's why so many people have trouble finding the correct prop for their application.
As far as "flexing" I don't know. Typically, stainless blades are thinner than aluminum in cross section so there is less parasitic drag. That is, it takes less horsepower to actually spin the blade through the water so more HP is available to drive the boat.
You CAN find aftermarket aluminum props that approach the performance of stainless but usually there still is a slight difference.