Got laid off today

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I'm 17, in a junior in tech high school, majoring in auto body. I've been working at a body shop after school for almost 7 months. I got the job all on my own, walked in, met the owner and was and started two days later. I've worked from 2:30-6:00 during the week, going right from school to work. I've worked full time during all my school vacations and whenever I've had a day off. Next year my school had a co-opt program, where I can work full time, every other week while attending school. The plan has been at my current job, i was going to work full time over the summer, and full time on co-opt in september. Since I've started, I can honestly say that I have NEVER missed a single day, and I have never been late, Im not just saying that, I've literally been there worked every second I could since starting.<br /><br />There are 5 employees in the shop, two being related to the owner, who also plays a part in the "hands on" part of it going some jobs himself.<br /><br />Today I get to work, right after school. My boss pulls me aside, and tells me that he's going to have to lay me off, and that I'm not the only one, He's laying off three of us all together, me and two other full time guys, (they both have families and own homes) His reason for this is, "the phones just aren't ringing" I have noticed that he hasn't been bringing in as many jobs as he did in the past, but I've been busy every day. I was really pissed when he first told me, I got in my truck, peeled out and took off, calmed down, came back 10mins later and got back to my job. He told me that I "can come in" for another week and he's not going to have any work for me over the summer, but "Im the most reliable kid he's ever had" and he'd like to have me working for him on co-opt when things pick up in the fall.<br />I just feel betrayed, like I've done everything I could possible do for this guy, and got screwed. I think he could have at least told me I wouldn't have a job over the summer to give me some time to find something else, having him tell me this really sucked, not a good feeling at all.<br /><br />I drove straight from the body shop, to a local "auto zone" where a friend of mine works, still all wound up. I talked to my friend, then the manager, got for hired on the spot, not even two hours after getting laid off. Thing was, auto zone just really isn't my thing, standing around at a parts counter, in a bright red shirt and dress pants/shoes, not to mention making almost two dollars LESS then I was at the body shop, and standing in one place all day. From auto zone i drove home and ate dinner. While eating, I realized that I couldn't do the auto zone thing, the idea scared me. <br /><br />Back in my truck i go, I drive to my dads restaurant, walk in the front door, and see the guy who runs Herb Chambers, a local Honda dealership. I walk up to him, introduce myself and tell him my situation. Turns out, the one of his employees just lost his license, and he needs a "lot boy"/detailer ASAP. He's willing to start me @ two dollars MORE then I've been making at the body shop, I go to see him right from school Monday.<br /><br />So, lets just say that its been a very crazy/emotional day for me. I'm excited, pissed off,scarred and sad all at the same time. Its going to be a interesting week. :rolleyes:
 

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I laughed. I cried. I lived.<br /><br />Glad it all worked out!
 

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Ryan, I'm sure it was a bad situation the owner was in also, having to let 3 people go that were prolly good workers.<br />That's the bad part of being an owner, BTDT.<br /><br />Things have a way of working out right and it sounds like this did. Congrats on the new job.
 

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I'm sure it was a bad situation the owner was in also
I've always gotten along real good with him, I've looked up to him and a lot of ways, and just overall thought he was a cool guy. But I have to say, I dont really feel bad for him, and I think he's selfish in a lot of ways. HIm and his family all have lake houses, I think the "phones not ringing" have something to do with him wanting to spend more time at the lake. Just at the beginning of this week I drove him to pick up his own personal truck, maybe a half hour round trip, I drove him in my truck (10mpg),, I thought an offer to pay for my gas would have been in order,, nope, not to mention I got home a lot later then I noramally would because of it. If he saw this comeing, he should have told me in advance. He also made a comment like "you know enough people" as in i shouldnt have a prolbem getting another job. I was very hard to me not to totally tell him off, I didnt mainltey cause who knows what will happen in the future, and he wants me to work for him on co-opt next year. Hes not the old for being a busness owner,, in his late 30s, and I really dont think hes a very good busness man, he does way to many "favors" for friends to make money. idk, guess im still just pissed :mad:
 

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Why didn't you tell him off?<br />It would have done you some good.<br />I'd go in on Monday and really let him have it.
 

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Ryan, Ryan, Ryan!!!<br /><br />Let me tell you weedhopper, you have so much growing up to do! You are acting like a 12 year old.<br /><br />Wax on, Wax off!<br /><br />Life is a B*tch, then ya die, get used to it!
 

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Originally posted by Bassin' Fever AKA LubeDude:<br /> Ryan, Ryan, Ryan!!!<br /><br />Let me tell you weedhopper, you have so much growing up to do! You are acting like a 12 year old.<br /><br />Wax on, Wax off!<br /><br />Life is a B*tch, then ya die, get used to it!
What he said. My boss just got canned, (along with a couple hundred other people in our company) just because we are not making the numbers we were projected to. He had been with the company for 20 years! And just like that, poof he was gone. And they flat out told him that the reason that he got canned was because our numbers were down, not because of his performance. There is no such thing as company loyalty anymore. <br />Oh, and unless you open your own buisiness, you better get used to the fact that you are not going to agree with everything that the boss does.
 

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For any job to exist, Ryan, the owner(s) have to make a profit. No profit, no business, no jobs.<br /><br />You have no basis for being angry at your former employer. He owes you nothing more than good pay for good work. . .if the work is there. He does not owe you a job if he doesn't have enough work to make you a profitable investment.<br /><br />He said you are a good worker and he would like to have you back if and when the work picks up again.<br /><br />Do not burn bridges. Ask him for references and thank him for the skills you learned in his shop.
 

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Ryan,you got spunk.<br />So you lost your job.You did not sit down in a corner and whine,instead you went out and did something about it.It took you one afternoon to get canned,to be angry ,to pick yourself up,to stabilize your situation and then improve it by $2 per hour.<br />With that sort of energy,the world will be wide open for you.<br />Once you get the wisdom to mix with your energy and spunk you will get far!!!<br />More power to you!!!<br />edit,just so you get an idea about 2 dollars per hour.A full time job is 2080 hours per year,multiply that by $2 and you have an extra $4160 before taxes.Not bad for a high school kid.
 

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Welcome to the real world Ryan! Great lesson to learn while young, listen to JB and others; don't burn bridge just because your perspective makes you think you were done wrong to. Sounds like you learned another lesson; good workers are in demand; a good and reliable reputatuon will take you far.<br /><br />Another thought; even if you work for someone else, you are really self employed. The company will do what it thinks is best for it: you do the same, keep your skills and head up.<br /><br />Bitting lower lip helps keep the mouth shut - hurts; but, goes a long way. You done good young man!
 

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Ditto to JB.... thank him for his confidence, the skills you learned, and the opportunity... and ask if you may use him as a reference (better yet ask "when you have time could you write me a letter of reference".<br /><br />Good work on "movin' on up".<br /><br />Wish I could say it won't happen again, but there is no guarantee... that's the beauty of the free market system, you can move up and make money, but only if the work is there.
 

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Originally posted by Hang'n In:<br /> Bitting lower lip helps keep the mouth shut -
Possibly the most sage advice on the thread, especially when given to a young, passionate, hormone driven lad. There is many a grown man who would have been better of by learning this single lesson at a young age.
 

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One of life’s little lessons, get over it. As for fore warning never a good business practices too much damage can be done by PO'ed workers figuring their getting the shaft. As long as you’re an employee and not an employer/owner the risk of termination is always there, always. Suck it up get over it and move on, that’s how life works. And FWIW until you are a business owner you will never understand the responsibility or stresses one feels.
 

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Well said JB. Not just you Ryan but all over the USA. Unless you actually own a business you would not know the cost. Figure in payroll taxes,Workers Comp,Medicare contributions and many other hidden costs you would understand.<br /><br />If your good at what you do Ryan your time will come. Do you Qualify for unemploment?<br /><br />My break even at Mattress ETC. is 350,000. My lease is 4200 a month alone just to give you an idea. <br /><br />Your in a field that folks have a choice of gas or preventative care. Do you do an oil change at 3000 or now wait a while longer so you fill your tank up.<br /><br />Your still young Ryan alot of older folks who have families are suffering alot more than you. You at least got a roof over your head and three squares aday with no mortgage. Stay positive ..
 

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Originally posted by KRS:<br /> Ditto to JB.... thank him for his confidence, the skills you learned, and the opportunity... and ask if you may use him as a reference (better yet ask "when you have time could you write me a letter of reference".<br /><br />Good work on "movin' on up".<br /><br />Wish I could say it won't happen again, but there is no guarantee... that's the beauty of the free market system, you can move up and make money, but only if the work is there.
All of the advice here is great, especially this above.<br /><br />I found out later in life that the best thing that I could ask the boss once in awhile was:<br /><br />How am I doing, and , Is there anything that I can do that you see that would make me a better empoyee. They also want to know that you are there for the long haul. Also, if you would like to move up to a management position in the future, make that known also. Thats "NOT" Kissing Azz.<br /><br />If you remember right, I am a semi retired Autobodyman and was in the field for 25+ years.<br />Autobody is one of the most up and down fields you can choose and you will make good money. It will also beat the H*ll out of your health! I looked forward to the layoffs to catch up on things around the house, they were never more than a week or two. Seemed that you could count on a lawoff just before Chritmas and around this time of the year because people want to take there vacations around now.<br /><br />You are much as I was at your age, god what an azz I was back then!!!!!!!!! I thought that the world revolved around me. :rolleyes: Oh how wrong I was! :D
 

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There is a wealth of good advice here. When leaving a job, do as JB says. Thank him for the opportunity, and wish him well. And go on your way.<br /><br />You have absolutely nothing to gain by telling him off, and the way he chooses to run his business is his business. When you get older, and do the "exit interview", the same rules apply. Shut up, leave, and get on with your life.<br /><br />Concentrate on being a reliable, productive employee and you'll do fine--and if you ever own your own business, you will really appreciate how valuable reliable, productive employees are.
 

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I'm curious ryan? Doesn't your Dad have any good imput on Girls and Jobs?? ;) <br /><br />Seems to be two important aspects to your life right now (maybe always will be) but that's what Dads are for, or at least should be!
 
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