Re: if these can get along anyone can. this is a must see
I always chuckle at a "Lost Cat" sign, have even seen them in the local Post Office, posted like we are looking for the FBI Most Wanted.
There is no such thing as a "Lost Cat". The cat knows exactly where it is. You just don't.
The cat has moved on as you were proved to be inadequate to properly serve this cat. You cannot follow instructions to meet their standards.
Until they have found an edge on you, they will look pissed off. When you start seeing them as cute, fluffy and fun, this will signal the start of your training program.