Ok, so after cussing this water pump out for several weeks, cleaning out all the passages, changing the impeller twice and probing all the water cavities and just general staring at the lower unit for hours on end, I finally decided to turn elsewhere. So I figured out why the drive wasn't pumping water.
The muffs were not tight enough on the water intake, so water was coming through both intakes, like I usually check, but when I put it on muffs with the lower split, I noticed that water was not making it up to the water pump to prime the pump....I bent the metal on the muffs so they were touching each other and putt if back on the drive. turned the water on and water was shooting up the water pump and priming the pump. So it turns out this entire time, it was my muffs that were the problem, and nothing to do with the water pump impeller.....
Biggest DOH! in the world.....but glad I figured it out.