Ok, one saga solved, one deepens. I finally found the oil pressure sender, it was back by the oil filter.
I could confirm that wire there was for the gauge by pulling it on and off making the gauge move. However, the thing that blows me away was there was a black wire that comes from up by the ECU and was also connected to the sender. As soon as I removed that the gauge went down to zero.
So, it begs the question, is that just a ground wire for something? I pulled it up and it comes out of the harness right by the ECU.
It is a nice covered wire so it is supposed to be part of the wiring, it wasn’t something someone scabbed in other words.