Re: Painting over old primer?
I don't mean to talk down to you, but are you absolutely sure your not sanding into the fiberglass laminate? The "woodgrain under clear gel" you mentioned could in fact be fiberglass laminated plywood used to build the boat. If you are sanding that deep your going too far. The layers you should see are topcoat paint, then primer, then white or colored gelcoat, then fiberglass, then wood.
Again, I may be just misunderstanding you.
My deck for instance is built using plywood laminated with fiberglass, gelcoat, primer then paint on top.
I just want to make sure your not sanding off the protective gelcoat layer and getting into laminate.