Perspective...

wilkin250r

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Much of our hardships are perspective. I've seen plenty of thought-provoking and inspirational threads, I thought I'd share my own.<br /><br />Several years ago, I was driving home from work, I was downshifting on a small hill, and the transmission went out.<br /><br />This happened at a time that seemed stressful in my life. Money was tight, working overtime at work on special projects, and I was working on my college degree and approaching finals. Everybody has these problems, but not always all at once. They seemed to be piling on my shoulders, slowing my steps and weighing me down. I certainly didn't need car trouble on top of it. Of all the rotten luck...<br /><br />I did the only thing a person could do, I coasted until I found a suitable place to pull over. I found a spot near a small doll shop, and pulled into the dirt parking lot. I went inside, and met an old couple that ran the shop and borrowed the phone. (This was before cell phones were really mainstream). After I made my call and waited, I talked with the old couple, I would estimate they were mid 70's. I mentioned my car troubles, and how it added so well to the rest of the problems in my life. I will never forget the woman's reply, because it hit me square in the chest.<br /><br />She said "I know what you mean. I have leukemia."<br /><br />Wow. Talk about a change of perspective. Suddenly, my problems didn't seem so big. Instead of final exams looming over my shoulder, I could see that I was almost done with the semester. My work? I was reminded of how much I truly enjoyed my job, which not many people can say. My financial problems? They just didn't seem important right then and there. Every mountain in my life became a molehill. I thanked the old couple, and sat in the warm sun on a beautiful spring day and waited for the tow-truck driver.<br /><br />Dear Lord, thank you for my little transmission problem, for I have carried the lesson with with me ever since.
 

JasonJ

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Whenever I start getting down over having problems, I always remember that despite whatever problem I am having, I get to eat as much as I want, I have a roof over my head, I have a decent paying job, a couple rigs, boat, garage with over $10,000 in tools, home theater, all of it. I am not living out of a box and starving or addicted to drugs or having any of the hardships a lot of people are having. It makes my problems seem petty and insignificant, like they really are. Perspective is a good thing.....
 

SoulWinner

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Wilkin,<br /><br />Thank you for sharing that. I am so happy that you have the wisdom to carry that messege in your life.
 

bubbakat

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Your blessings are as many as the stars in the night sky. Sometimes you just have to nudge the cloud over a little so you can see.<br /><br />That is a good testimonial wilkin
 

wilkin250r

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Originally posted by SoulWinner:<br />Wilkin,<br /><br />Thank you for sharing that. I am so happy that you have the wisdom to carry that messege in your life.
The subject of wisdom to see and carry the message is even more profound than you realize. I was only 21 years old at the time...
 

Link

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wilkin250r<br />Good story and lesson for all of us.<br />God always gives us what we need as we need it. Sometimes it's a punch between the eyes as in your case that time. And sometimes a gentle tug on your heart.<br /><br />IE: In 1991 a friend who we refere to each other as (the sister/brother we never wanted) out of the blue gave me a book. I read the book 4 times is three days.. changed my life forever. Restored my faith in God, Human kind and life in general.<br /><br />Two months ago (2004) I picked up a book on hand loading ammo and rifles.. The auther had read the same book 20+ years ago and re-dedicated his life to Christ because of it. (his words)<br />He explained in detail what he got out of the book and it was 180 degrees out of what I got.<br />Both messages where there though. I just didn't see his at the time. And I expect the same with him.<br /><br />Same book but two different messages as each of us needed at the time in our lives
 

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Hey mikeandronda<br /><br />The book was<br />The Greatest Miracle in the World<br />By Og Mandino<br />I just looked it up and its now listed as a self help book. Ha..<br /><br />That one and two others I almost always have in the house to just give away to friends and family are<br /><br />Tale Chaser's Song<br />By Tad Williams<br />Science Fiction about life through the eyes of a cat. (fun to read)<br /><br />and last but not least<br /><br />They Shoot Canoes.Don't They?<br />By Patrick F. McManus<br />Out door and fishing Humor<br />(should be mandatory reading before becoming a iboats member LOL)<br /><br />Link
 
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