Rude dockside manners - Allatoona Lake-GA

Regal-89

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Well I went to the lake on Monday morning(10:30) with 3 of 4 if my children. The wife and my oldest daughter met us later. Well I was by myself putting the boat in, so i put the boat in the water, told the kids to go and sit on dry land next to the dock while I go put the truck&trailer up. Well I came back to the dock where my boat is tied up and the kids and I start to get in. Now you should know, this whole thing took me maybe max 10min.. A older guy came down to the docks bitching and screaming that everyone was taking to long and cussing at all of us. Now there are 3 spots to dock, I was in one, another boater(by himself & child) and another couple. Nobody was there more than 15 mins. I know this might seem long, but not every boater has two people that can do everything. After the guy got done screaming, I at first told him to keep his trap shut, then I told the kids to get in the boat and sit while I went to talk with this guy. As I went to yell at this guy, he walked away. Now I have had boats and motorcycles for years, and anytime I am on my bike with my wife every rider always waves or if I have ever had trouble they are the first ones to offer a helping hand or anything they can do to get you back up and running! It seems in the past couple of years, people who are getting boats just get more rude at the lake, now I am only 33 and its not the "young" kids that are the rude ones. Once I left the dock I actually wished that guys boat would sink, or run out of gas and nobody would help him when he was on the lake. I always lend a helping hand, because I believe you get what you put in in life. If you never help someone, or you ***** 24/7 about someone taking an extra 5 mins at the dock it will sooner or later come back to you. Don't get me wrong I understand some people might take a real long time at the dock, but the best thing to do is say "hey can I help you get your boat together so we can get our boat in". Sorry to *****, but it seems nowadays you can't even go to the lake and not have someone be rude, or not lend a helping hand! Pretty sad when "bikers" are 100% better in helping people than boaters!!! I seem to have lost all hope in most boaters. PS, I made sure my kids learned a good lesson about people who act the way he did, and the way he spoke in front of them. I don't care how mad I am I won't speak rude in front of kids, all that does is teach them its ok to be rude to others. Sorry for the complaining, but I had to get this off my chest. Oh yah, if the guy that was at the dock is reading this I hope your boat rots, and sinks! ha ha ha just a little humor I don't want him hurt just a little bruising would be nice! J/K
 

rottenray6402

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Re: Rude dockside manners - Allatoona Lake-GA

It is a sad state that the world is coming to. I know what you mean about rude people of ALL ages. The best thing about getting older is I don't let people like that ruin my day. When I was young something like that would eat at me all day but now I just figure they are idiots and let it go. As a fellow boater and "used to be" motorcycle rider it is an interesting point that you bring up about bikers being more courteous than a lot of boaters. I think it is just symptmatic of the breakdown of manners and common sense now days. Hopefully your children will benifit from seeing what a jerk the guy made of himself.8)
 

anyfishlldo

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Re: Rude dockside manners - Allatoona Lake-GA

People suck. Simple courtesy is almost nonexistant nowadays and if you show courtesy it is more often than not repaid by rudeness or ignorance.


And see my thread on the Nimrod Family in Stupid Human Tricks.
 

hidust

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Re: Rude dockside manners - Allatoona Lake-GA

You just have to hope that what goes around comes around.

Sounds simple but who knows.
 

WanabeBoater

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Re: Rude dockside manners - Allatoona Lake-GA

I know what how you feel and I live by a simple rule on or off the water. 'Rude people can shake their head, point their finger, but, GOD HELP THE ONES WHO OPEN THEIR MOUTH'. LOL
 

Blackgang

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Re: Rude dockside manners - Allatoona Lake-GA

Right on Regal. I finally got tired of the bad citizens years ago. Now I keep my boat at the marina in a slip. A hundred six bucks a month is cheap peace of mind.8)


What we do in life, echos forever in eternity!
 

bamadave

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Re: Rude dockside manners - Allatoona Lake-GA

As I went to yell at this guy, he walked away.
But you taught your kids thid is OK?
 

Regal-89

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Re: Rude dockside manners - Allatoona Lake-GA

I forgot sometimes on forums you have to write everything out, this was my fault I didn't exactly write my exact actions. What I meant was I went to talk with the guy, I don't "yell' or "cuss" in front of my kids(out of frustration), but I will be damned if someone is going to raise that kind of hell in front of them for no reason. I didn't go to yell, but "softly talk" to him and tell him that he was way out of line. Sorry I miss used words. I hope this clears everything up. Thanks
 

WanabeBoater

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Re: Rude dockside manners - Allatoona Lake-GA

Regal-89,
GOOD FOR YOU, that guy is probably thinking how big of a butt-head he was after you talked to him and then again, some people just do not know how to treat others. In the end, you win.
 

BF

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Re: Rude dockside manners - Allatoona Lake-GA

Also seems to me sometimes the old ones are the worst... Some seem to think that because they're older it's OK for them to act like an a$$. Reality probably is they've always been an a$$ but they feel less inclined to repress any rant as they get older. (?) Maybe 'cause people are more likely to quietly take the rantings of an old man?

Good for you... you pointed out to your kids and the ranter that it was unacceptable. Your kids will remember the event. Mr. Furious probably forgot by the time he got to his car. (probably got a new rant going in the parking lot, or on the drive home) :)
 

Solittle

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Re: Rude dockside manners - Allatoona Lake-GA

The guy had no business mouthing off in front of your family. Having said that I can tell you that if all of the ramps at the marina whare I usually go were tied up for 15 minutes you would hear a lot more than mouthing off. I think a lot of bad words when I see guys or families pull up to the ramp when they are not ready to launch - - or retrieve. Ramps are not for loading the boat with coolers, getting the kids lifejackets on/off, etc. Ramps are for getting boats in and out of the water period.
 
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