sin and redemption at the ramp

Home Cookin'

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Today I was pulling up a large (to me) boat that I've only pulled out once or twice--and I was solo and the wind was up and tide flooding. Had the boat tied to the far end of the pier--lots of room--and went to get the car. Came back to find 3 teenage boys just tied up a jet ski in front of mine and were heading up to the clubhouse--there was a high school sailing regatta on and being talk like a pirate day, they were off to find the booty. I said guys, you'll need to move the jet ski b/c I'm pulling up; just put it behind mine and they said yessir.
So by the time I got my trailer in and ready, and walked down to the pier, they were gone but the jet ski wasn't. No I wasn't going to cast them loose, and the wind like it was, I could walk my boat down with the bow and stern lines and it went outside them; one guy on the pier helped hold mine off. I wasn't happy but I don't get wound up about stuff.
Well just about when I was clear of the jet ski they came back and said, Sorry, we didn't know you were coming right out (they just got distracted) can we help you with yours? and they were all over it, one on the bow line, one on the stern anotehr in the boat for hook up, he jumped over the bow and was walking the trailer tugging 21' of boat up the rollers--I was floating up to the last 4'. I cranked but they would have, they said goodbye and sorry, etc. Good polite boys just a little focused on other things I can't blame them.

So I pulled up out of the water and no one was around wanting to use the ramp (two wide ramps and a third nearby)so I just stayed there on the top of the ramp, cleaning barnacles fixing stuff even washed the whole boat, expected to see someone wanting the ramp but no one came except one guy my age with his teenage son to lauch a jet ski; I offered to move but they came in next to me I helped them launch and get going; they also had a boat similar to mine they recently got so we did boat talk.
I launched mine back in solo, still working on minimum sinking the trailer, and found I could push it off the rollers without floating the boat but a little. Splashed and tied it, retunred the trailer and headed on out.
Life is better with give and take. I understand that at the crowded frantic docks this scene would not play out the same way, but there's good stuff out there.
 

4JawChuck

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Re: sin and redemption at the ramp

I agree, its nice everyone is back at work from holidays...seems the craziness starts when summer holidays are in full swing.
 

26aftcab454

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Re: sin and redemption at the ramp

I think 90% of boaters are very good people who would do thier best to do the right thing.
 

jonesg

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Re: sin and redemption at the ramp

Everyone reserves the right to be wrong, but if I start finger pointing I'm sayin more about me than them.

I just find that particular attitude breeds gratitude even when surrounded by "imperfect humans."

In other words, my state of being isn't reliant upon anyone else.
 

robert graham

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Re: sin and redemption at the ramp

Seems nastiness and impatience at the ramp increases exponentially with the number of folks trying to launch/retrieve boats, time of day, weather/temperature. Lots of folks late in the day on a hot summer afternoon with several beers in gut equals bad behavior! I've always told my wife that one day we should get a good camera and make a film/documentary called "Ramp Fever"...you know it would be a hit! Good Luck!
 

Navy Jr.

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Re: sin and redemption at the ramp

I love stories like this. Need more of 'em.

As a newbie last year and a frequent reader of this forum, I couldn't help but wonder if life at the ramp was truly as bad as it sounded based on all of the negative posts. After getting the launching and loading thing down, I almost felt qualified to be a yeller instead of a yellee.

But from my own observations, at least at the numerous ramps I've used here in Minnesota, everyone has been courteous and helpful. There was only one incident where I saw someone yelling at someone else, and it had nothing to do with boats. A fisherman saw some kids (small fries) come down the courtesy dock and start kicking left-behind empty water bottles into the water while Mom and Dad launched their boat. He was right, but he was kind of a jerk about it. The kids stopped immediately. Mom was cool, said she would explain it to the kids, and with me and someone else in our boats nearby collected the bottles.

Jonesg is right. That guy yelling... his performance said more negative things about him than about the kids. It also provided an opportunity for others in the area to rise above it all and do the right thing.

The question still remains: who left those empty water bottles on the dock to begin with?!
 

Home Cookin'

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Re: sin and redemption at the ramp

Probably the guy yelling.

And yes, in my event, there were lots of cute girls around; the boys were like a pack of hounds.
 
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