OK, I'm going nuts and I can't seem to find a way to search these forums (or google) to find out how one disconnects this connector. I've pulled, pushed, tried to pry, etc. My brother in-law and his friend started to get the jumbo pliers out and I called a halt! There's got to be a trick, but for the life of me (and those two - who by the way with me, were completely sober) I can't figure it out. Can anyone help me figure out the trick to disconnect this junction? If you do, you will hear the sigh of relief wherever you live...