What was good news .. now sad news

Andrew Leigh

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Hi all,

I remember reporting wonderful and great fightbacks as my brother Erich faught to keep cancerous Malignent Melanoma at bay.

This morning sadly at 02:15 Erich lost his fight and slipped away. The last 6 weeks was very tough for him as the tumour grew to about 15" x 8" by 3" high, the oncologist was overheard to say that she did not know how he had lasted so long. We used adult diapers as dressings as we could not find dressings large enough.

I will miss my older brother incredibly who at the age of 56 had so much more to give. I will also keep wonderful and fond memories of a man I loved deeply and who loved me deeply.

Today made the arrangements .... so final.


Thought I would share this with my extended family.


Cheers
Andrew


PS: I know you will find this hard to believe but here are my last 24 hours. Wife gets a phone call at 18:00 to tell her that her sister has been badly beaten in a robbery. Concust, hole in the head from being pistol whipped, brused face brused throat ... were it not for the farm hand she was a gonner. 8 hours later while she is with her sister getting her treatment I get the phonecall regarding Erich. On the way back from the hospital at 04:30 I notice an overturned vehicle (totally wrecked) on the side of the highway. Something worries me so I get turn around as soon a possible and go investigate. A youngster was in the car + - 23, he wad dead. Called 911 and waited for them to get there then went home.

Think my bad luck for the next 20 years has been used up.
 

Haut Medoc

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Sorry to hear all of this & my condolences......:(
I think you have used up all of your bad luck .......:)
 

aspeck

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Re: What was good news .. now sad news

Man, Andrew, that is a string of it for sure! You are in my thoughts and prayers, that God will pour His strength and love into you and your family. It is always difficult to loose a loved one ... You have my deepest sympathies.
 

OldMercsRule

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Wow Andrew, That's enough. Very sorry, prayers on the way. JR
 

Mr.Ladyfish

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Re: What was good news .. now sad news

My condolances Andrew. I went through the same thing when I lost my little brother to melanoma. It will get better. Remember the good times you shared before his sickness.
 

Reel Poor

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What a load Andrew. Prayers for strength for you and your family from here.
 

stevieray

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Re: What was good news .. now sad news

Sincere sympathy & condolences from the stevieray household. Always keep Erich in your thoughts & memories & pass stories of the good times along - that way his spirit truly lives forever.
 

dooma_Flatchy

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Re: What was good news .. now sad news

My prayers are with both of your families. That was a lot to take in, in such a short time.
 

QC

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Wow Andrew, so sorry to hear about your Brother and your SIL and the overwhelming load on you. Be strong for your family, prayers from here :(
 

Plainsman

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Re: What was good news .. now sad news

Sorry to hear about your brother. I lost mine 12 years ago. Just try to remember the good times. Time will heal the pain. Prayers on the way.
 

RPJS

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I'm so sorry to hear this sad news.
I will be praying for you and your family.
 

Limited-Time

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Sincere sympathy & condolences on your loss and suffering. Time, family, friends and faith will carry you and your loved ones through these trying times. Better times await you ahead, may God be with you in your time of need.
 

Bob_VT

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I am at a loss for words......... You and your family are in our prayers...
 

kenmyfam

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Our thoughts, prayers and condolences are with you and yours from the entire Kenmyfamily.
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you.
 

WillyBWright

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Re: What was good news .. now sad news

Bad things seem to happen in threes. Sympathies for your sadnesses and hopes for better days ahead. Right now I'm sure it's harder than ever, but Keep the Faith.
 

LadyFish

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My most heartfelt condolences Andrew. :(
 

Kenneth Brown

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Re: What was good news .. now sad news

He's not gone Andrew, just any bad memories or feelings you may have had towards him are gone. Relish the good thoughts, he sounds like a heck of a man. You and yours will be in my prayers tonight.
 

Kiwi Phil

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I am sorry to hear your news Andrew.
I too am at a loss for words.
Cheers
Phillip
 

SS MAYFLOAT

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Wow, that is just awful. Now to be strong for your sister in law and wife. You can bet you and yours will be in out prayers.
 

Rattle-

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Re: What was good news .. now sad news

Sorry to hear that Andrew,
You'll think about him everyday...I've been there, as have a lot of people.
Better days ahead, my brother.
Kerry
 
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