Re: which conn.rod will work?
The 1973 V4's were a one-of-a-kind deal as far as the powerhead goes. The block, crank,rods and pistons will only fit those components from 73. Not 72 & earlier, not 74 & later.
A complete powerhead assembly from 74 to 76 and some 77's are a direct swap. Powerheads from a 1977 140 & all 1978 & newer V4 crossflows can be adapted to your 73 mid section.
If all you need is a rod, you'll have to use a 1973 rod if you have a 73 block, crank and piston.