Re: Wont go into gear
Background: This might help understand how the L/U actually goes into F,N,and R. I'll try my best to post a short animation of the process.
Ok like pnwboat had said the rod attaches to part # 45, but here is they VERY important part ( which sometimes falls off of part #25 if the lower right Phillips head screw is removed along with it being the pivot point for part 45) look for # 73 (yoke) it completes the connection from 46 to 45 onto 73 then 25. If 46 has ever been pulled up or down to far it can a will slip off the yoke, or cause the yoke to slip off 23.
There should be resistance when pushing it down, or pulling it up. If no resistance, it's probably come loose from the shift mechanism inside the lower unit.
If you have the tools this isn't a huge problem but does require some mechanical know how. Now if somehow it has become disconnected you have to disassemble the L/U (sorry). Definitely get a book and or ask a marina/mechanic to pull it apart for you , that you might save some cash ans resemble it yourself if you want to. If everything checks out as far as the linkage being connected ,cables are correct and so on the L/U will have to be broken down to find the answer.
For now if the L/U isn't off pull it then with it laying down prop towards the sky.( the reason will be clear in a minute)
First spin the prop slowly and try to pull/push the shift rod like you first did.
Noting ? next turn the prop again while pushing the shift pin down ( that should be forward) feel/hear anything .
If it is still in neutral take a rubber mallet and very lightly tap the prop nut once or twice and then turn the prop anything? By tapping it you can (sometimes) get the dog gear to slide and engage forward. Anything else would requires a specific questions or actually having the L/U in front of me.
Good Luck