Re: Written grammar; a thing of the past?
I have never had a great grasp on the formalities of grammar so my views are much less strict than others. Medical conditions and non-native language posters aside, I think 'formalities' may sum it up.
Consider how a person dresses in most situations to how one did years ago. Formal attire or even dressing 'presentably' is much less common. Again, on this I'm not one to point fingers on this matter but I have experienced someone wearing a half top and low rider jeans with their butt crack showing at a funeral! That was a bit over the top for me.
Further it seems the same goes for manners and common courtesy. North American society as a whole is much less formal in many ways. I would also suggest some people are less formal as a way of being more personal and open.
For example, I've received an email inquiry from a person who came across as intelligent and who had obviously spent time on writing their email. After the initial email the formalities were dropped and the following correspondence had colors and font changes, Internet speak and it was disjointed and difficult to understand.
How you communicate in email and on message boards has very little to do with how intelligent you are, what your education is or any number of factors. Much like wearing fine clothes and having exceptional manners, a person with good grammar may come across better but it doesn't necessarily mean they're a better person.
Just the thought of grammar made my post come across as uptight and preaching. That was so not the intention.
