Good Dad ...

aspeck

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Wife and I are childless for the week, so yesterday we took advantage and headed to the lake. GREAT time!

When we got there a Blazer with boat was jostling around on the ramp. A guy was out yelling at the driver and I thought, "Oh no, not one of these jerks!"

They waved us by to put in our boat and cleared the area. While my wife was taking the Denali and trailer to the parking lot I listened. Here a dad was teaching his teenage son handle the boat and trailer on the launch ramp. At one point he looked at me and winked, so I went to talk to him. He told me his son was starting to ask if he could take friends on the boat, so he had to learn to handle it in pressure situations. On a busy Saturday there could be jerks that would give him a rough time and he had to stay cool under pressure, so he best learn on a quiet Thursday with dear old dad providing the theatrics.

Kid was handling it well, but having a bit of trouble getting the trailer to go where he wanted. I told the father to have the son grasp the steering wheel on the bottom and move his hand the way he wanted the back of the trailer to go. Dad looked at me, said, "I don't know if I want to confuse him." Then he backed his "imaginary" rig down the ramp with his hand on the bottom of the imaginary wheel, thanked me, and proceeded to go have a chat with his son.

As we motored away from the ramp I could see the son doing better and the dad was smiling. Neat to see this Dad working with his son to make him an ace boater and courtious on the launch ramp.
 

SuzukiChopper

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Re: Good Dad ...

Very cool story aspeck! Good to see you had a chat with pops as well to find out what was going on rather then just judging. That trick with the wheel too, best thing since sliced bread, if it wasn't for iBoats I'd still be struggling lol
 

fire831

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Re: Good Dad ...

Yes that is a good dad. Just to bad there are not more people that would take their kids or any new boaters out and do that. But if that happened we wouldn't get the funny stories in the stupid tricks while boating and fishing forum about stuff at the ramp.
 

tashasdaddy

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Re: Good Dad ...

all of us learned to back a trailer, when we got back from the water. Dad would pull up in front of the house, get out, and say wash it and put it up. if you have a riding mower, get one of those lawn trailers, and put your kid on it. great way to learn the basics.
 

lowkee

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Re: Good Dad ...

if you have a riding mower, get one of those lawn trailers, and put your kid on it. great way to learn the basics.

That's exactly how I taught the wife. I would put the mower on one corner of the lawn and tell her to back through the trees and meet me where it needed to be. The fun part was the trees, lol. She hit the first tree countless times. Good times :)
 

Navy Jr.

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Re: Good Dad ...

My brother-in-law taught the hand-on-the-bottom-of-the-steering-wheel trick to me years ago, and I taught it to my wife in a church parking lot, and later to my son in a high school parking lot. Sure does take the screaming out of backing a trailer.
 
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