Re: 12v accessory plug
don't know if this will help or not....
this is a pic of my aftermarket fuse panel after install. yours will no doubt look different, but the principle will be the same. this panel is always live power. the feed wires run all the way to the batt. the red (+) wire is fused with a large fuse right at the batt.
you can see the big fat read wire (+) at the top of the panel and the big fat black wire (-)at the bottom. these are the (+) and (-) feed wires to the panel.
sorry the pic is not with the cover off. but the two black wires (on the bottom right) and the one yellow (my colors ain't right either are they) on the left (bottom left) at the bottom of the panel is where all acc. ground (-) wires are attached at. these wires are a direct connection to the big fat black wire for ground.
the two red and 1 yellow wires by the fuses are the positive (+) wires for the acc. i have going to this panel. three are marked as to what they do. the forth is a cigarette lighter 12v supply mounted on the dash. just like you want. anyways, these red and yellow wires in the fuse box are directly linked to the big fat red wire with a fuse in between them..
i agree with others. you need to find out what is what with your vom. it'd be nice if all circuits had their own fuse.
only thing i could have done better was the stacon connector ends. there just crimped on and should probably be soldered on + have some shrink tube put on ea. connection..
hope this helps..