should be 5/16-18 or 3/8-16
Best to remove the lower unit.-----As far as I know there are only 2 fasteners that hold the lower unit on.-----That what is shown in the picture is a mystery to me.
I spent an hour digging thru old pictures of my '84 and '85 9.8's that I had. I remember a bolt with a reduced hex head, however a socket head would work.
Unless you're adding an anode, leave it be. It's not holding anything on unless you add the anode...