boltonranger
Petty Officer 1st Class
- Joined
- May 2, 2004
- Messages
- 204
Re: Another Dumb Boater
He was the dumber boater.
He should have known better.
But you should not have expected him to.
That was your first mistake.
You never rely on the other boater.
Your second mistake was going 25 or so through a narrow channel.
At dusk no less. You should have reduced your speed way ahead of time.
Why?
1. Narrow channel.
2. Dusk.
3. Too close to the marina. (Do the waves just stop at that buoy line?)
Any ONE of the above was plenty reason to slow down. But you didn't.
Your third mistake?
You should have sounded your horn with either one or two blasts telling him your intent to pass. I would submit that if you had - that might have given him a second thought to change course or wait.
Of course many boaters don't - but it's one of the 1st questions that get asked in an accident.
Kyle, here's the problem-
You're saying things like "He should have seen me; He could have waited" etc..Sure; But you don't ever know what's in another mans head; even though you think he should see/know what you see, that's simply not reality. You haven't learned that.
You actually DID see him - way ahead of time but did nothing.
I heard you explain how much time there was, distance etc. You don't know if he was aware; but clearly YOU WERE. Unfortunately you are more at fault because of all you saw but didn't do. The other guy? You only know what he should have seen - not what he did see. I know what you saw and thought because you said so.
Here's something that you should think on:
"The law doesn't say who has the right of way; rather who should YIELD the right of way."
The wise boater assumes less than you did; and does more than you did.
Were you "wrong"?
Nope.
Unwise? No question.
So the question is bud; do you want to go through life being right or being wise?
It's up to you. Be safe.
-br
He was the dumber boater.
He should have known better.
But you should not have expected him to.
That was your first mistake.
You never rely on the other boater.
Your second mistake was going 25 or so through a narrow channel.
At dusk no less. You should have reduced your speed way ahead of time.
Why?
1. Narrow channel.
2. Dusk.
3. Too close to the marina. (Do the waves just stop at that buoy line?)
Any ONE of the above was plenty reason to slow down. But you didn't.
Your third mistake?
You should have sounded your horn with either one or two blasts telling him your intent to pass. I would submit that if you had - that might have given him a second thought to change course or wait.
Of course many boaters don't - but it's one of the 1st questions that get asked in an accident.
Kyle, here's the problem-
You're saying things like "He should have seen me; He could have waited" etc..Sure; But you don't ever know what's in another mans head; even though you think he should see/know what you see, that's simply not reality. You haven't learned that.
You actually DID see him - way ahead of time but did nothing.
I heard you explain how much time there was, distance etc. You don't know if he was aware; but clearly YOU WERE. Unfortunately you are more at fault because of all you saw but didn't do. The other guy? You only know what he should have seen - not what he did see. I know what you saw and thought because you said so.
Here's something that you should think on:
"The law doesn't say who has the right of way; rather who should YIELD the right of way."
The wise boater assumes less than you did; and does more than you did.
Were you "wrong"?
Nope.
Unwise? No question.
So the question is bud; do you want to go through life being right or being wise?
It's up to you. Be safe.
-br