Daughters Boyfriend

[rmmpe]

Re: Daughters Boyfriend

From experience I can tell you that it is a relatively simple matter to put a lien on the house to prevent him from selling it out from under her. If nothing more, it'll wake him up and he'll stop the delaying tactics.

When he asks her to drop the lien, all she has to do is tell him what she wants before she does so. If it's a simple speedy divorce, he'll go for it.

Substitute She for He and Her for him if you wish.
It worked for me.

 

[dirtyoldman]

Re: Daughters Boyfriend

SS -

You did the right thing. You need to take the high road here. Don't worry about the money, just worry about your daughter. Usually in these matters there is enough blame on both sides to go around, and hearing only one side of the story makes a person mad at the other party.

You can't let this happen. Be the perfect grandfather and father, and treat everyone well. This won't continue. Send the granddaughter cards and presents for birthdays and christmas (even if they get thrown away). Send them to your daughter too, and the boyfriend. Write your daughter a letter, anddon't say anything negative about him in there.

Invite them to christmas parties and birthday parties and other things with lots of people, they won't have to talk to you if they don't want to and there won't be any confrontation.