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kei9th

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i know this has nothing to do with boats but i know you all have used ebay from time to time. i sold a pair of 8 inch woofers for a car stereo. i sell and buy all the time and i have a perfect clean record. after the sale and payment was made the seller contacted me, and said when he hooked up the speakers all they did was pop and crackle, he said they were blown before he got them. wants money refunded. i said no, sorry but, if you would have had a stereo shop do the install i would gladly would have refunded your money. he escalated this to ebay and after all consideration he won, i lost and now have to pay him for a full refund on something he installed incorrectly. i have already refunded his money because i couldn't use paypal until i did and i needed a new battery for my fone so i used ebay. the question is can i contact ebay directly, and try to explain to a live person or will it always be through email? or since i gave the refund already there is nothing i can do. i know he blew the speakers or at least installed wrongly, or just bought what he thought he wanted, didnt like them and fried them to get his money back. anything i can do? my auctions all do state no refund, mostly because most people dont know how to do anything technical. youtube dosent make you a car stereo shop just cause you watched a guy do it and he says its easy.


rant over sorry for the long post.
 

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I feel for ya. I sold a blacksmith forge blower on ebay and when it arrived it was crushed and in a different box. USPS, ebay, paypal and (rightfully so) the buyer told me to pound sand. I lost 100 bucks on the deal, 20 or so on shipping AND the blower. That was the last time I used ebay to sell. From then on I've used Craigslist. The buyer and I meet, I demonstrate the item works as advertised and I take my money and leave.

Sorry to hear about your experience, I fully understand your frustration.


Hey, at least it wasn't a boat that failed on it's maiden voyage. (read that guy's post)
 

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The longer you sell on ebay, the better your chances get of selling to a nut or dishonest buyer. Unfortunately for sellers, ebay almost always sides with the buyer. You'll have to write this one off and block that bidder. Ebay ain't what it used to be.

Sorry you got shafted.

Did you make the guy send the speakers back?
 

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On the flip side, I have purchased items, where the problems or conditions, were lied about, or understated.

The speakers he wants to return may not even be the one's that you sold him. I have heard that will happen, as it's hard to prove.

Better luck next time.
 

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Unfortunately, it would be your word against his. You would have to prove the speakers were good when shipped. Next to impossible. You could take him to court and try and prove your case. I would demand the speakers back since he received a refund. There again, you have a no return policy. And, tough to force him to return items. Unless you had a bunch of money tied up in the speakers, you're probably just going to have to eat it....
 

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CODB - Cost of doing business. Stinks, but it's a reality that most large businesses understand and most small businesses (regular "sellers" on ebay are a small business) don't feel right away.

Someone mentioned selling on CL vs. eBay, and I agree - for small volume, I like CL much better. However, if you've got a consistent product or something that appeals to a wide range and think you can make the volume make sense, ebay is not bad. Got a friend who did a killer side business buying and selling camera (film) equipment on ebay.
 

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You will never get a person regarding eBay. That's their plan. They do not want to talk to you. We got boned on selling a new cell phone. Sold it, shipped it, they received it and it worked great. After they got it wet, they wanted their money back. They filed a complaint thru eBay and we refunded their money AND eBay also refunded their money (Buyer Protection Plan). Never again. Most of the times, it's a scem to get paid double.

If you sell on eBay, ALWAYS register it with the buyer protection plan, that way if there's an issue, eBay pays...not you.
 

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I buy and sell off ebay unless it's something that I know nobody around here will want and I know fetches high bidding wars on ebay. Sometimes I will join a website that focuses on whatever item I am selling and sell it there via paypal excepting payment as a "gift" only. I mess around with arcade stuff and sell boards and games on CL and arcade based websites all of the time. Most of the sales I do is via Craigslist. Cash in hand, no fees, and it usually sells faster on Craigslist. Sometimes people haggle, but you can always say "no". Ebay is full of scammers.
 

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Every since man started trading pretty stones, there has always been the possibility of getting, the proverbial "Pig in a Poke".

eBay, CL and Internet stores, etc. have, just brought it to a whole new level.

If people are smart, do their homework and keep their eyes opened (and their gullibility in check) they can reduce being taken, but it may be impossible to eliminate it completely.

Not selling something somewhere, where it can make the most money, just because there is a risk of scams (or just a bad deal), just does not make good business sense.

Our world is full of risk.
 

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Your going to run into it sometimes, unfortunately, I have sold tens of thousands of items on ebay, I used to have a specialty camera parts business that I invented a product that no one else had for antique cameras, made a ton of money, but every once in a while did run into a dishonest buyer. I wrote it off to the cost of doing business as a whole, I came out real good on there until I sold the process to another person and he does quite well now.

Sorry you got burned.

I have 4 different paypal accounts in case something like you had happen, having several paypal accounts allows me to still purchase when I need to, if one of the accounts is locked.
 

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I had an interesting experience on Ebay one time.

I bought a modified electric motor for an RC helicopter. The guy sent me a message saying to leave him positive feedback so it would release the funds into his account so he could ship it. I said that's putting the cart before the horse, you ship it, and then I leave you feedback. Well this cat ends up writing me a super nastygram. I reported it to ebay, and yes there are humans at Ebay to talk to, and I checked recently and he is no longer an Ebay member. I did get the item and would have left positive feedback if not for the nastygram. He had 9 feedbacks, 25% negative. Needless to say, he didn't last long.

As far as the OP is concerned, just let it go. They could have been damaged who knows. The buyer usually wins because the burden of proof is on the seller. Basically ebay looks at it as "without buyers, there would be no ebay" so ebay protects buyers.

I've sold a handful of things on ebay without issues. I always put a disclaimer if I sell any electronics "This item is in working condition upon packaging. However, due to circumstances beyond my control, I cannot guarantee this item will work upon arrival at your home. Therefore, it carries no warranties, written or implied."

That might cost me a few dollars for the sale, but it guarantees me that I will win any issue about the item not working upon arrival.
 

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rant over sorry for the long post.
ePal is now configured just like every modern retailer.... seller has to give the money back, then raise all other prices so the smart consumers pay for the dumb ones...
retail economic socialism is the norm now

the really enjoyable part is after the 100% refund, when the buyer can leave you negative feedback, and you can only leave them positive.:(

ebay spent a decade making sure they monopolized that industry, and there were some good times for sellers, but the seller gravy is over now.
 

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I've sold a handful of things on ebay without issues. I always put a disclaimer if I sell any electronics "This item is in working condition upon packaging. However, due to circumstances beyond my control, I cannot guarantee this item will work upon arrival at your home. Therefore, it carries no warranties, written or implied."

i have that statement almost word for word in my descriptions, and in the message at the bottom of every sale. he still won. never thought of a second paypal account. i tested the speakers before i sold them. i had no use for 8 inch woofers. i have a very nice sound system and they would do me no good. the problem i have is that these were not installed by a professional. i guess ebay dont care about the right or wrong way to do install when it comes to car audio.
 

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ePal is now configured just like every modern retailer.... seller has to give the money back, then raise all other prices so the smart consumers pay for the dumb ones...
retail economic socialism is the norm now

the really enjoyable part is after the 100% refund, when the buyer can leave you negative feedback, and you can only leave them positive.:(

ebay spent a decade making sure they monopolized that industry, and there were some good times for sellers, but the seller gravy is over now.

This is spot on ^^^.

I used to buy and sell a ton on eBay. I treated it like a garage sale on the internet (cuz that's what it was), not any more though. It's basically a store and you are the seller (we are the sellers). If the buyer doesn't like it, they can get their money back (basically).

Every now and then I can find good deals as a buyer, but it's no longer the norm.

As a seller I was only burned one time. About like you were. Now most of my stuff goes up on clist.

Sorry for your loss, I've been there, I know it's very frustrating.:(
 

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Important bit of information: E-bay bought Paypal a while back, it's not a separate company, and E-bay requires that you pay via paypal, they don't allow other services/methods.

I'm gonna get long winded here...

In a nutshell, Ebay and Paypal are one big scam. Why? Because you have to move money through them, which lets them pick up extra "free" money from the interest on in-flight transactions. That's a LOT of cash, which they get for doing nothing but holding other people's money. It's in their best interest to DELAY transactions, freeze accounts, do anything to keep the money in their fists longer.

Because they're not a bank (they're classified as a "deposit agent") they avoid all those fussy banking industry regulations. Because they control Paypal, they control terms of the sales, and can refund/reverse transactions as needed to preserve their image...using other people's money. They preserve E-bay's image by manipulating Paypal's customers.

Here's the system: You sign up with them to sell things. You pay a listing fee for each item, and a final price fee that varies as a percentage of the item sale price, usually 6%-9%. You can pay a myriad of fees for things they could offer at a minimal or zero cost (it's all computerized, no people involved), but are sold as value-added "features" for extra dollars, like pictures, picture hosting, a bold title (they're charging you extra for using a FONT, people), extra special "gallery" listings, fees for reserve prices, buy it now prices, etc. They rake in the cash at every level just getting your item listed.

Then they sit back and let their auction program run the auction. No people involved in that, so no wages to pay. If the item sells, then they require payment via Paypal. Since they control payment for the auction, they have an easy way to "know" how much money was actually paid, so they get their full cut of the final price. Again, since it's all online and in their own computers, they don't need people to do it. It's all automatic, and very cheap for them.

Here's an interesting bit: When money is "in" a Paypal account, it's actually not an "account". Remember that Paypal isn't a bank, so it doesn't have to follow the same rules. Basically, E-bay/Paypal has all the money that's being transferred via Paypal in a few big banks in large accounts. Since it's a huge amount of money, they get preferred interest rates in banks (they use interest bearing checking accounts). This big pile of money is sometimes called a "float". It's how western union and Moneygram typically make a lot of their cash, too.

To give you an idea, Paypal/ebay makes 3.43 percent on its accounts (google it). In 2009, Paypal/Ebay had a total transaction volume of $71 billion dollars. So collectively we can estimate P/E made about $2.4 billion dollars on interest over the course of that year. Plus, remember they're taking in from %6-9 of the final for each item that sells ($4.2 to $6.4 billion) and at least a few dollars for each item as a listing fee whether it sells or not. From that they subtract expenses, of course.

Because of the way the fine print in their buyers/sellers agreements are written, Ebay/paypal can unilaterally refund/reverse transactions without the seller's permission. If money to cover the refund is in the seller's paypal account, they automatically take it. If the money is only partially there, they take what's there and send an e-mail to the seller asking them to deposit the rest. You can't argue with them, as has been mentioned they won't even talk to you. If you happen to have other sales happening that bring money to your Paypal account, as soon as money hits the account from whatever source, they take it until they get their money for the refund they gave.

Don't like it? Tough, they control all payment for their service. If you want to sell on E-bay you have to use Paypal. E-bay knows well the biggest barrier to other online auction companies getting started is a reliable, safe payment system that's internet based and worldwide. Since they bought Paypal, other auction companies can't use that service (which was pretty much the leading payment processor), forcing any new auction companies to build a payments business at the same time they build an auction business... so far no company has managed it.

Since Paypal has "branched out" into credit card processing, they now handle payments for other businesses not selling online, like industry associations and charitable donations. They control these completely as well, if they want to put a hold on your account for the charitable donations you're collecting for the local couple whose home got fire-bombed because the people in question are iranian immigrants and they're getting pressure from the state department, they can. If they want to deny your credit card payment for your magazine subscription because it's the same credit card you used back when you had a paypal account selling things on e-bay and didn't reimburse them for one of their "refunds" they do that, too.

They're pretty much the poster child for evil multinational corporations, with worldwide operations meaning no single government can control enough of their infrastructure to halt their business, no law enforcement agency is big enough to do oversight on them, they basically can do what they want.

I have to express a grudging admiration for their business model - they have to pay for software development for internal use, a worldwide network of data centers, people to do phone support, people to manage the money... basically a lot of the same items that a big bank or catalog retailer has to cover. But, they don't have to invest in, house, or ship inventory. They do shipping, but they're an agent, so no trucks to pay for. They don't pay for manufacturing, no wages for workers there. No taxes paid on materials or VAT either. They don't collect taxes from the transactions, they're not required to, so no time/effort spent on getting that money nor handing it to a government. They're multinational, on the internet, so they can put data centers in whichever country gives them the biggest tax breaks.

All they do is run the computers and tweak the software, and in exchange they get billions per year (est. 2010 revenue for P/E combined is about $25 billion), of which about $3 billion or so remains after expenses. Compare this to General Motors, who had revenue in 2010 of about $130 billion, but minus expenses they made $4.7 billion.

Do the math, and you'll find that Ebay/Paypal keeps 4 times as much money per revenue dollar as GM does.

Which company would you rather own?

Nowadays I only use Ebay to find local sellers, then offer to meet the seller locally and pay cash. Technically that violates the seller's agreement with e-bay, but that's the seller's problem. I don't use Paypal at all.

Erik
 

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Awe it is always interesting to see the comments when somebody asks about Ebay and Paypal..

By the way, it is really quite easy to get a hold of someone at paypal, I had to talk to them on the phone on Dec. 20th due to a situation that happened, about 5 minutes on the phone and the situation was taken care of.
 

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eBay/Paypal is not a scam. Is a business.

All of their fees and condtions are spelled out - up front - in writing. No one is being forced or coerced, into using the services.

If I can make more money (after all fees) selling an item on ebay than CL, or anywhere else, why would I want to sell anywhere else? Ebay has worldwide customer base, feedback, buyer/seller protections and other useful services. They also have high fees, for sure. Just sold an antique gas pump on ebay. No way could I have got the high selling price, elsewhere, even after deducting fees.

Other items I can sell quick, locally and easy on CL, so I'll sell those there, but at greater risk. Selling items long distance via CL, can be a real money-losing pain. CL, of course is free.

I recently attended an local auction, that added a 10% fee, to all sales. I don't really like buyer fees at auctions, but if there is something selling, that I am interested, I have to pay the 10% fee.

It's just making informed business decisions.
 
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It is unfortunate, that many people who sign up for electronic payment or credit services often times just scan through then click on the agreement to the "Terms of Service" without really reading them. I agree with the last poster, everything is spelled out in those agreements, of course they contain allot of legalese, that can be difficult to understand for the uninitiated, if you don't understand something, then stop and get the definition of what they at talking about! Most problems can be solved by making sure you understand what your signing up for, if you don't agree with those terms, then don't use the service. That is the way that business is done now a days. Ultimately the choice is yours, those companies wanting you to use their services have no control over you.

The internet has been a boon to some and a ban to others, love it or not it is a fact of life.
 

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ebay is still good. It just isn't as good for sellers in the yard sale type business as it once was.
I can still pick up an old non running Johnnyrude for $25, and sell it in pieces for $300 fairly quickly... I will end up with $150 to $200 in my pocket when all is said and done (which includes giving refunds for people who cannot read or whatever).

If selling a running motor, local methods better, like craigslist. But for small bits, ebay is still king. At the end of the day, whatever method leaves you with the most $ in your pocket is best. Don't get hung up on what the fees are, and try not to get too stressed about having to give the odd refund. There are still some good buyers, but we tend to remember the bad eggs.
 

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they contain allot of legalese, that can be difficult to understand for the uninitiated, if you don't understand something, then stop and get the definition of what they at talking about! Most problems can be solved by making sure you understand what your signing up for, if you don't agree with those terms, then don't use the service.

There are two problems with this. First, the complexity of the terms and conditions for Ebay and other companies like them is deliberate... they fully expect that a large percentage of their customers will never read them because of this, and therefore are inclined to include many terms which, if fully explained, an informed customer wouldn't agree to.

Second, for many (most?) of their customers I suspect the choice isn't "get someone to explain it to you or don't use it" but rather "agree to something you don't understand or stay away from the shiny, attractive store front where things are cheaper and easier to find than anywhere else". Ebay's stock in trade is the small business with no storefront and the middle class consumer with no legal team, people unlikely to be able to defend themselves against a megacorporation.

So, they have created a system which in a lot of cases is the only "business environment" these people know where they can act unfairly and unilaterally, yet they hide the nature of what their customers are getting into deliberately from them in favor of protecting their profit stream. In my book, lying/misleading customers in order to make more money is unethical.

That is the way that business is done now a days.
An excellent point, except that I believe this is an unethical practice followed by too many modern companies because they can get away with it, and you seem to be using the fact that it's done a lot as a kind of justification for the practice.

Lately I'm finding out I'm one of the few remaining people in the world with ethics, though, so that's not a surprise.

Erik
 
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