Not glowing hot (propane torch probably couldn't get it that hot anyway). If you see aluminum glowing, you are seconds away from melting it down. You want to heat it for a good long time, 1-2 min, but there isn't a color change or indicator to tell you when to stop. Normally I apply heat for a minute, then try the wrench. It will take some force, but you shouldn't be applying so much force that you're afraid of breaking something. If I can't get it, then I put more heat to it for a longer time and try again. When you get it, the bolt will typically squeak and you'll see a puff of dust come out as the corrosion breaks free.
Don't forget that there are 6 bolts holding your lower on, the four exposed ones in the front, one at the very rear of the gearcase, under the trim tab, and one more tucked up just in front of where the zinc is. The last one is hard to see and frequently forgotten. Unfortunately the location of this last one is in a spot where it's nearly impossible to apply heat. This is one of the ones I've twisted off and then gotten out after dropping the lower.
Good luck!