Finally! Some common sense from our courts.

demsvmejm

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Boomyal said:
There was a day that people were raised and educated to look at issues through the lenses of the greater good and vote for that good even if it happened to go against our own SELF interest. It seems today that too many of us have forgotten that part of America that had, on the whole, helped to set us apart from the rest of the world.

I might add that that ethic was very Biblical. Contrary to poplular belief, PW and Rolmops, et al did not divine the ehtics that we were founded on and have largely (until now) lived by. Need I say more that that Biblical influence is fading from the American way? (very sadly and to our detriment) Blue nose bigot indeed!

Boomyal,
Normally I vehemently disagree with you, politically and philosophically. However here I agree totally, with both points. Our founding fathers sought their independence from England to freely worship their God. They sought the freedom to establish and follow their own religion. Our laws are ultimately based on the bible and the 10 Commandments. Therefore we can not separate religion from this argument.

I hate to repeat it but as the low brow saying goes, “God created Adam and Eve, not Adam & Steve.” As evidenced in Genesis 1:27, “So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him: male and female created he them."

Further evidence of the intention of God that man and woman be the marital unit, in Genesis 1:28,” And God blessed them and God said unto them, Be fruitful and multiply; and replenish the earth”

Later in Genesis 2:24-25, we read, "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother and be cleave unto his wife, and they will become one flesh.” “And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and both were not ashamed.

Nowhere does it state a man and his husband; always the reference is a man and his wife, or a woman and her husband. Here it is important to note that God instituted marriage in the Garden of Eden when people were still innocent and immortal, therefore it follows that the marital union is between man and woman.

As we know from the Bible, the later disobedience to God of by Adam and Eve brought corruption into human nature, and since then all their descendants have been born with a predisposition to sin. This damage to human nature had an adverse effect on all forms of private and social life, including the marital relationship. Thus, natural attraction between individuals sometimes becomes disordered, taking various forms of perversion in sexual instinct such as harlotry, polygamy, homosexuality, marital unfaithfulness and so forth.

Now before anyone lynches me for being a homophobe, I am not. My wife’s boss is gay, and I have a great level of respect for him. One of my former bosses is gay. When a co-worker gossiped that fact to me, which was later substantiated, I told them, “So what? I don’t care. It doesn’t change my opinion of him. It has never affected my employment, so it doesn’t matter.” And further, one of my customers is gay. When I worked side-jobs as a mechanic I would go to David’s house and work on his trucks there. One evening we sat and talked while I repacked wheel bearings for a front brake job. We talked about our youth. I recounted some earlier relationships, not graphically but it was self-evident that I was always heterosexual. He told me of his marriage to a young woman, his realization of his sexual orientation involving a fellow rodeo rider. He divorced wife, gave her everything and moved away. He entered a relationship with another gentleman and after several years fell in love with another man. Feeling guilty about his betrayal of emotions he left that relationship with little and built a house for himself and his new love, who later left before the house was finished. I was never grossed out, never uncomfortable, it was just a casual conversation. He told me about his loves and how he came to be where he was in life, and me the same. I respect this man and still do work for him on his vehicles. For these associations I have an uncertainty regarding my feeling about gay marriage and civil unions. I think there should be some legal acknowledgement of a committed relationship among same-sex partners, but not marriage. That is a sacrament, involving one man and one woman, end of discussion. However, any privileges we provide gay couples because they live together we should extend to heterosexual couples living together too. And there is the plunge of society into the depths of hell.

And I say, let’s have a heterosexual rights parade. Let’s flaunt our sexuality for all to see. Let us straight people throw it in the faces of the homosexuals. I bet there would be plenty of uproar then. On a human rights front, marriage is NOT a human right. It is a sacramental right.
 

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Haut said:
Flintstones!.....
Meet the Flintstones!....
They're your average stone age family
From the state of "Show Me"
We'll have a good time
A yabba dabba doo time
We'll have a gay, old time!..........d:)

I asked for witty, and by golly you came through! I dont think that I have agreed with you on ANYTHING, but I can appreciate a good smart alleck comment. NIcely done, carry on.

Oh, and thank all of you for making my point. One that you didnt even know that you made. I said earlier that what you think isnt illegal, yet. Well, it might as well be, as I have done NOTHING wrong. I havent discriminated against anyone, yet I am being crucified on my words alone. Go figure.
 

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Then marriage should not be a legal standing. It should have nothing to do with filing taxes, estates, or common law. If it is a sacrament, then it should have nothing to do with government. Otherwise, it's discriminatory to exclude people based on their gender preference.

I'm done checking this thread however, because it's clear that the majority of you are still living with a world view that what you think is culturally appropriate is appropriate for everyone else. The own reference to your own mythological god as evidence to your claims, is proof enough of your limited self-centrist viewpoint.
 

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LFK said:
Then marriage should not be a legal standing. It should have nothing to do with filing taxes, estates, or common law. If it is a sacrament, then it should have nothing to do with government. Otherwise, it's discriminatory to exclude people based on their gender preference.

I'm done checking this thread however, because it's clear that the majority of you are still living with a world view that what you think is culturally appropriate is appropriate for everyone else. The own reference to your own mythological god as evidence to your claims, is proof enough of your limited self-centrist viewpoint.

Whoa!:eek:
 

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demsvmejm said:
Boomyal,
Normally I vehemently disagree with you, politically and philosophically. However here I agree totally, ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~On a human rights front, marriage is NOT a human right. It is a sacramental right.

Hmmmmmmmm, demsvmejm, maybe we are really not as far apart as you alluded to. Great post!
 

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--GQ-- said:
Rubber, I think you spend too much time in your "sup uped" Ford Taurus... Do I need to translate this post into Spanish so you can understand it better, SI or NO? 8)
I'm having a hard time understanding your post. Can you please translate this into Swahili? That way it will be a lot easier to read my in-dash computer while I'm cruising the boulevard.
 

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Demsvmeim.

You are confusing Biblical mythology with law.

The benefits and priviledges of a legal union are a human right. Marriage is a legal term and a legal event. The power to conduct a marriage is conferred by the State, not by the church.

Absence of mention of single gender families in the Bible is not a condemnation except in the minds of those prone to condemn who have no other logic to apply.
 

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GQ,

You are becoming very predictable. The post is a conglomeration of many independant sources that were put together by a conservative site. They were even cited!

Lets think about how many liberal sites would publish this type of information. Not many if any? Duh.

And again you failed to adress the content just attempted to marginalize the messenger. Try and show you are not drowning in the kool aid and show an open mind to other points of view. Challenge the content, not keyhole the messenger.

I also find it funny that the homo animal theory is being put forth. Should this be true, I guess we should immediately stop teaching Darwin in the schools. If we are to accept this arguement, Darwin's theory is wrong.
 

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Apparently the guy promoting the homo animal theory hasn't spent much time in nature. Nature abhors a vacumn so in the animal world if a bunch of male (or female) polywogs are in a isolated pool some will switch genders to keep the spieces going. Now I'm just a country boy but I have never seen a human do that without a lot of surgery. There are a number of animal spieces that can be both genders such as the earth worm but I don't really think that relates to humans. I happen to agree with the theory that gays are born that way and as I've stated earlier I think they should have some legal rights to a civil union or whatever you want to call it. Most of us are just dealing with nomenclature here calling it marriage or not.
 

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rottenray6402 said:
...promoting the homo animal theory....
Did someone say "homo animal?"
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Now come on rottenone, you dont' really "know" that those Polywogs didn't get surgery. Jeez, speculation can ruin a good argument . . .
 

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OK, QC you got me on that one. Maybe that's why our medicaid costs are so high here in the empire state!:devil:
 

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rottenray6402 said:
.....I think they should have some legal rights to a civil union or whatever you want to call it.

When you cut through all the 'rights' BS (because there are very few things 'they' do not have the rights to now) what they really want the most is moral equivalancy to the union of a Man and a Women.

Not if I have anything to say about it!! You people that think (without thinking) that is just hunky dory are NUTS!!!
 

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Why does it make you so threatened and scared?

I can't think of anything that two consenting adults can do to each other sexually that even has me remotly scared.

Come on out of that there closet Boom. We're here for you! ;)
 

Boomyal

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As has been said before, it was God who created a man and a women and declared that they should be joined together. It was not PW or Rolmops et al who just pulled that idea out of thin air and now that time has passed, it's time to update. You know, get with the times. Give me a break!!
 

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Pointer, your quotes don't tell the whole story. They failed to include the many Social Paradigms important to a child growing up. And the fact that a child is adopted implies he or she came from a shady background to begin with. To simply say gay parents are likely to promote abnormal behavior in a child or likely to be gay is (stupendous).

A child life really begins in grade school. There he will experience many new challenges and meet unfamiliar faces. This social diversity is crucial at an early age. It promotes complex social skills in dealing with peers at the same time heightens his awareness of his own social identities. Most children at this age involve in school activities such as spelling bees, cheer leading, baseball, basketball to name a few. All of which signify the important of gender and their role in life. This hidden curriculum is indeed a part of cultural values. It will certain play an important role in a child adult life. Moreover, school introduces the new experience of being evaluated by universal standards and not so much of personal relationships like the one from parents to a child. Gay parents may unconsciously focus their young one to lean to certain direction but to a child, as he grows older will see it as a contradiction to the universal standards and will not turn gay and or engage in activities resulting negatively as in your quotes above . This assessment is true because NOT all children adopted by gay parents turn gay or suffer the consequences mentioned in your quotes. In fact I've never heard of a case where a child turned gay because of gay parents. Myth busted.

Also children are very influential by their peer groups. Among them, children enjoy new independence, and gain valuable experience in forming new relationship. It brings out other interests not shared by adults such as type of music, dress code or even political mud slinging here on DC. This influence sometime super exceed that of the parents especially during time of adolescent. A time when sexual awareness and attraction of the opposite sex is obvious. A time when young people begin to break away from their parents and form new life as responsible adult. At this stage parents have little or no influence. To say the least gay parents DO NOT have the power to persuade their young ones into homosexuality or subject themselves to uneventful ending even if they try.

These are two of the many social paradigms affecting a child on his way to adult hood. Clearly gay parents sexual preferences on their children is limited. Nature is a force can not be persuaded. Homosexuality is NATURE not NURTURE. As far as children raising by gay parents are likely to be "abnormal" is balogney and the first name is not OSCAR .
 

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QC, this bud for you. Your so called "ideal family", a mom and dad setting has more holes than swiss cheese. The holes are so far apart, it should be called Holes cheese 8) . Let's play connect the holes and see if we can find any truth in it.

With divorce and single parenthood rising in the past two decades, your "ideal family" blue print is merely a rough draft well bellow 40% of the United States population. For the sake of this debate, I'll give it the benefit of the doubt and raise it up to 50%. Within that 50%, half are dysfunctional families. The remaining 25% is subject to the many Social Paradigms (see my post above) influencing a child behavior as he enters the world out the safety of home. I'll be generous and say 10% are negatively influenced. Mathematically applied, we are down to 15% of the population. Out of the 15%, probably no more than 5% are likely to adopt. Wow, hmmm, interesting, only 5% left fitting your "ideal family". Darnit some poor kids somewhere are fixin to be adopted by gays. Oh no, hurry folks, run for cover. The gays are coming.

So to pour gasoline onto your fire, 2% of your "ideal family" are likely to live abroad. Well 3% isn't bad at all. With the three 3% remaining, 2% are more than likely to adopt children from abroad. Should I do the math or is it obvious? 8)
 

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Darnit I hate percentage. o:)
 

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demsvmejm said:
Boomyal said:
There was a day that people were raised and educated to look at issues through the lenses of the greater good and vote for that good even if it happened to go against our own SELF interest. It seems today that too many of us have forgotten that part of America that had, on the whole, helped to set us apart from the rest of the world.

I might add that that ethic was very Biblical. Contrary to poplular belief, PW and Rolmops, et al did not divine the ehtics that we were founded on and have largely (until now) lived by. Need I say more that that Biblical influence is fading from the American way? (very sadly and to our detriment) Blue nose bigot indeed!

Boomyal,
Normally I vehemently disagree with you, politically and philosophically. However here I agree totally, with both points. Our founding fathers sought their independence from England to freely worship their God. They sought the freedom to establish and follow their own religion. Our laws are ultimately based on the bible and the 10 Commandments. Therefore we can not separate religion from this argument.

I hate to repeat it but as the low brow saying goes, “God created Adam and Eve, not Adam & Steve.” As evidenced in Genesis 1:27, “So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him: male and female created he them."

Further evidence of the intention of God that man and woman be the marital unit, in Genesis 1:28,” And God blessed them and God said unto them, Be fruitful and multiply; and replenish the earth”

Later in Genesis 2:24-25, we read, "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother and be cleave unto his wife, and they will become one flesh.” “And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and both were not ashamed.

Nowhere does it state a man and his husband; always the reference is a man and his wife, or a woman and her husband. Here it is important to note that God instituted marriage in the Garden of Eden when people were still innocent and immortal, therefore it follows that the marital union is between man and woman.

As we know from the Bible, the later disobedience to God of by Adam and Eve brought corruption into human nature, and since then all their descendants have been born with a predisposition to sin. This damage to human nature had an adverse effect on all forms of private and social life, including the marital relationship. Thus, natural attraction between individuals sometimes becomes disordered, taking various forms of perversion in sexual instinct such as harlotry, polygamy, homosexuality, marital unfaithfulness and so forth.

Now before anyone lynches me for being a homophobe, I am not. My wife’s boss is gay, and I have a great level of respect for him. One of my former bosses is gay. When a co-worker gossiped that fact to me, which was later substantiated, I told them, “So what? I don’t care. It doesn’t change my opinion of him. It has never affected my employment, so it doesn’t matter.” And further, one of my customers is gay. When I worked side-jobs as a mechanic I would go to David’s house and work on his trucks there. One evening we sat and talked while I repacked wheel bearings for a front brake job. We talked about our youth. I recounted some earlier relationships, not graphically but it was self-evident that I was always heterosexual. He told me of his marriage to a young woman, his realization of his sexual orientation involving a fellow rodeo rider. He divorced wife, gave her everything and moved away. He entered a relationship with another gentleman and after several years fell in love with another man. Feeling guilty about his betrayal of emotions he left that relationship with little and built a house for himself and his new love, who later left before the house was finished. I was never grossed out, never uncomfortable, it was just a casual conversation. He told me about his loves and how he came to be where he was in life, and me the same. I respect this man and still do work for him on his vehicles. For these associations I have an uncertainty regarding my feeling about gay marriage and civil unions. I think there should be some legal acknowledgement of a committed relationship among same-sex partners, but not marriage. That is a sacrament, involving one man and one woman, end of discussion. However, any privileges we provide gay couples because they live together we should extend to heterosexual couples living together too. And there is the plunge of society into the depths of hell.

And I say, let’s have a heterosexual rights parade. Let’s flaunt our sexuality for all to see. Let us straight people throw it in the faces of the homosexuals. I bet there would be plenty of uproar then. On a human rights front, marriage is NOT a human right. It is a sacramental right.



Well, now that you mentioned it, let's seek the truth. The whole truth and nothing but the truth. It is clear the bible states, "God created Adam and Eve". They had two son. The one son married a girl in a far off land. Logic implies the girl was also the daughter of Adam and Eve.

My question to you, what does the Bible say about Incest? Seriously I am very anxious to seek enlightenment.

No part to any truth shall be false.
 

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--GQ-- said:
To simply say gay parents are likely to promote abnormal behavior in a child or likely to be gay is (stupendous).

This is one of the most unlearned statement in this thread. GQ, who in Heavens name do you think are the primary, most influential persons in a young childs life? (That is of course, unless you let your Nanny raise your kids.) Children learn by, you guessed it, EXAMPLE, as well as what is overtly taught them. Why in the He** do you think the welfare parents, on the whole, raise welfare children?
 
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