Flirting no longer a problem (update)

demsvmejm

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SS said:
SS.... DO NOT let the missus read about this issue here. You wrote that when you and she spent time together on the boat and evenings it couldn't get much better. MAKE the time to spend with your wife. Tell your wife exactly what you have told us, that this girl is flirting with you, you are not comfortable with it and will stay the course and be true to your wife. Stay your course, the girl will tire and find someone else. Especially if you make it clear that you see her as just that, a GIRL.

Your wife will be far more hurt if she finds out your "secret" than if you tell her. So far you have said nothing to suspect that she will not embrace you and understand, and trust you, and love you for your commitment.

Good luck and congratulations for staying true to your vows.
 

Fly Rod

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THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH FLIRTING!!!!

Unless U are WEAK vunerable and vunerable Volupuious lis88 Volupuious lis!!!!!!!8)8)
 

Fly Rod

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THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH FLIRTING!!!!

Unless U are WEAK and Vunerable to them Volupuious lips and BIG BOSSOM women!!!!!!!8)8)
 

JustMrWill

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Ok...Mz MayFloat...you now know what to get SS for his birthday :devil: I am sure the THREE of you can work something out....

*wishful thinking*

-JMW
 

ratracer

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Flirting at work is a dangerous practice. One misstep can put you at the mercy of your company's HR and legal departments due to a harassment charge, where you risk anything from a reprimand to getting yourself fired "with cause".

Some people find a ring to be an irresistable attraction because of the challenge it implies, it's an ego boost if they can manage to snare the other person into committing adultery. In the workplace it's better to just play dumb and show a complete lack of interest.
 

kenimpzoom

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Would a few minutes of pleasure be worth a few years of pain.

That is the way I look at it and those thoughts usally fade away fast.

Ken
 

rottenray6402

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A few minutes? How do you make it last that long Ken?:devil:
 

SS MAYFLOAT

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Today was the day of victory for me. I knew I was going to have to let my boss see what was going on with this girl at the store. I told him that I had an orange juice machine to change out. When I arrived at the store, I called him on his cell phone. He then pulled the security cameras up on his computer in his company office to watch what was going on.

Sure enough she was working and overly glad to see me. As I was done changing out the old with the new, I bent down under the counter to plug it in. While doing so, she grabbed my rear end. Startled, I rose up and bashed my head against the counter. WIthin a minuet the phone was ringing. It was my boss calling to talk to the manager. The manager then asked for her to go into the office.

A few minuets later, she busts out of the managers officer and out the door she goes. PO'd to the max!

It turns out that all she knew was that she was caught on video grabbing my rear and was let go for sexual harassment. Thats a reason for immediate termination in the company. Well, the video was proof, and the manager played it back for her to see for herself.

Talked to my boss before the end of the day. It turns out there have been other complaints about her as well. He said he was glad to finally catch it on video.

Now to go get some ice for the bump on my head. Just hope that it is completely over with her. Why she persisted on flirting with me I don't know. I would understand if I had flirted back, but I didn't. Just doesn't make sense why. I think sheis just searching for a sugar daddy. That sure isn't me,,,,,,,,,,,I'm more of a hops and barley type daddy.

My wife, dog, boat, fishing poles, and the grand kids is my life. They are just too important to give up for a piece of strange tail. (probably wouldn't have been that good anyway!)

Thanks for all the input, it sure was and is apprectiated!
 

jtexas

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rottenray6402 said:
A few minutes? How do you make it last that long Ken?:devil:


they make a pill for everything nowadays, ray!
 

vipzach

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Smart move telling your supervisor SS!!! Glad it worked out for you, I would still tell the wife about it though.
 

sloopy

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Good job SS, now was she fired or given a "stern" warning?
 

SS MAYFLOAT

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Sloopy, she was fired/terminated. Hamburger buns is okay to touch, employee buns are a no no!

BTW Sloopy, we finally sold our house in Smithers. Surpose to close on it in two weeks. Do you know where Smithers is? It is by Montgomery. Sure gonna miss goining down there.
 

JasonJ

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Good deal. Unfortunately, she is not the only woman on earth, there will be another. I went through a "thing" with another woman last year. No cheating or anything like that, we were friends, but there was that underlying thing in the background. The only thing that stopped anything from happening was the fact that I didn't allow it to. I told my wife about it. Being the ever smart woman she is, she told me she already knew. That is a valuable lesson, because most people know their spouse is cheating, they can tell. It is the little changes in routine that makes it obvious. My wife was cool with it, she knows that flirtation happens, and that even attraction happens. It is impossible to prevent attraction. You can't control it, but you can control your actions. I have had countless opportunities to be unfaithful in my life, and have never done it. It has happened to me, and I just can't imagine putting someone else through it for sex. Hate to say it, but sex is sex. Once you get past the newness, its the same old thing, so why ruin someones life over it. Not worth it. Good job SS, cheaters suck....
 

roscoe

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Did you get a copy of the video?

You could play it for the next little hussy that tries puttin the moves on you.
 

Reel Poor

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Way to go SS,,,Live has enough problems without creating one for yourself.
 

rottenray6402

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Just think SS, the bump on your head is nothing compared to the pain that could have been caused if you wouldn't have been strong in resisting her. Good for you for doing what you did. If there were other complaints this must have been a little game she was playing. That is probably why the more you resisted the harder she tried, you were a challenge. Hopefully she learned from this also and if so who knows how many problems you headed off for other guys down the road.
 

Gary H NC

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Hey SS...I'm proud of you buddy!
Everyone knows what i have been going through the last few weeks,You did the right thing.
I wish my cheating woman had your values.
Never ruin a good thing.Someone up above is smiling down at you right now!

KUDOS!!!

Now where are these women when i need a little ego boost? LOL...
 

rottenray6402

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Hey Gary, maybe SS can you hook you up. Of course she's unemployeed at this time so you'll have to pay for dinner. 8)
 

NBE

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Instead of going through all of that, you could have just sent her on down here to me. I would have taken care of that problem ASAP. :devil:

Glad it all worked out for you!
 

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You're a better man than most, SS.
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From SW Florida, A proud member of iboats since March 25,2001
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