Got married yesterday

JasonJ

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My wife and I finally got married yesterday. We have been trying to get everything aligned and taken care of for the last few months, and it is now done. We have been "playing married" for quite awhile, but I asked for real back in spring of this year. Feels good to have things proper instead of just "shacking up". We have been together for 4 years now...
 

LubeDude

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Re: Got married yesterday

Well, congratulations, Too bad you (Both of you), were not able to experience what a wedding is all about. The anticipation of everything that goes along with it.<br /><br />Please dont think Im down on ya now, at least ya finally did the right thing. Youre obviously not the only people that opted for this. Young people these days dont know what they are missing. Were things in the right perspective there would be no way in H*ll you would be on the computer right now.
 

JasonJ

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Re: Got married yesterday

Lube, the flipside to your statement is that we don't have to worry about those pesky problems people find out about because they didn't live together first. <br /><br />Besides, the wedding, while very important, is not the end-all. It is the RELATIONSHIP that is important. Our relationship far and away is better than most people we know, we are free from the petty arguements, the resentment, the restriction on behavior, all that stuff that can happen when people wait until getting married to move in together. If people are to get married, they need to KNOW each other, and you do not know a person unless you live with them.<br /><br />As far as why I am on the computer, well, I have to do something while she is sleeping. We have our entire lives together to look forward to, we are not going to get too wrapped up in what goes on in a single day.<br /><br />Besides, we have both been married before, we have tried it your way, and it didn't work... <br /><br />BTW, the actual honeymoon is happening in Hawaii. :)
 

BassCat73

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Re: Got married yesterday

Congratulations Jason to you and your wife. As long as both of you are happy, nothing else really matters. That's the only perspective that's important right now. Have fun on your honeymoon and tell us how it went!!
 

LubeDude

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Like I said, "Im not coming down on ya"!<br /><br />I thought maybe this was the first, anyway , I really ment the congratulations part and hope you many more years.<br /><br />I understand what you mean about the "Querks", but statistics show that people that live together first are even less likly to make it. Hope you prove the statistics wrong.
 

JasonJ

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Re: Got married yesterday

Thanks guys, and yeah Lube, I know the stats. Stats have about the same meaning as polls. All I know is it is all good in this household.. :)
 

QC

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Re: Got married yesterday

Congratulations Jason!! Just celebrated our 20th last week and all's good in this household too. May you and the new Mrs. have as good a 20 years as we have.
 

crazy charlie

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Originally posted by JasonJ:<br /> All I know is it is all good in this household.. :)
Sounds to me like someone got a little sumtin sumtin last night!!! ;) ;) Congrats!!!!
 

Bob_VT

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Re: Got married yesterday

Congratulations! Wishing you many many years of continued happiness!<br /><br />Now go to the S-1 and file for BAQ and ID card. <br /><br />I thought you would get a kick out of that!<br /><br />Bob :D
 

LadyFish

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Re: Got married yesterday

Congratulations Jason, glad you found someone worthy of sharing your pillow.<br /><br />Just a few things to remember:<br /><br />• Love is blind. Marriage is the eye-opener.<br />• Marriage is a wonderful institution, if you don't mind living in an institution.<br />• The shortest sentence in English: I do. It's also the longest sentence.<br />• A bachelor didn't make the same mistake once.<br />• Weddings are three-ring events: two for the fingers, one for the husband's nose.<br />• Women live longer than men because they don't have to marry women.<br />• Married people don't live longer. It just seems like it. ;) :)
 

Ron G

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Re: Got married yesterday

Cograts jason!My fieance lives with me too,been living togeater for 3 years, your right you do find alot out about a person when you live togeather.were doing the whole shabang in jan.
 

cwilt

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Re: Got married yesterday

congrats jason<br />my 3 yr mark is tomorrow...feels like 10 just kiddin
 

Johnshan1

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Re: Got married yesterday

I was married back in september, we met at the age of 18, continued living at home with our parents while in college, we just bought a house in July and moved in the day we got married. At the age of 22 I think we are doing pretty well :) <br /><br />Congrats Jason have a great time in Hawaii!
 

Bassy

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Re: Got married yesterday

Congratulations to you two and many years of joy and happiness.
 
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