How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

Turin

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How to ask my girlfriend to marry me...

Bought ring already..

Im just afraid that she thinks its awfull.

And i don't know when or how to ask..

So girls (woman) Ho would you like to be asked..

PLEASE HELP:eek:
 

QC

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

Well I am no woman, but I'd do it properly . . . on a boat of course. I didn't mean do it on a boat, I meant ask her to marry you on the boat. But maybe after . . .

Congratulations!!! Here's a good question, does she like boats?
 

Turin

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

She actually hates boats..

She onley goes whit me on my boat when its above 30 degrees celcius..
and than only to swim..

So not a good idea...
 

Turin

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

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Originally Posted by Turin View Post
......Im just afraid that she thinks its awfull.
What? The ring or that you are asking her to marry you?

the ring

I want to do it properly but im just a stupid boer (redneck you would say)
So i dont know how to be romantic in such a thing..

It has to be all perfect..
 

OldMercsRule

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

Ol' Murky is the wrong gender but I'll take a shot anyway.

Think of somethin' spectacular that you know she likes from yer past experience with her.

Go out on the date, (or a short trip to somewhere she likes) n' make sure it's a good one, (date or trip).

Flower petals, (maybe tulip petals), in the ol' tub in the hotel room, a few candles around said tub, (hopefully you get the point).

Anyway, she will know somethin' is up unless ya always do the kinda stuff I'm suggestin' here. Wait 'till the moment in the evening is just right n' get down on the ol' knee, n' pop the ol' question.

Hope that helps!!! Congradulations! Best wishes!! JR
 

57whitehouse

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

Ol' Murky is the wrong gender but I'll take a shot anyway.

Think of somethin' spectacular that you know she likes from yer past experience with her.

Go out on the date, (or a short trip to somewhere she likes) n' make sure it's a good one, (date or trip).

Flower petals, (maybe tulip petals), in the ol' tub in the hotel room, a few candles around said tub, (hopefully you get the point).

Anyway, she will know somethin' is up unless ya always do the kinda stuff I'm suggestin' here. Wait 'till the moment in the evening is just right n' get down on the ol' knee, n' pop the ol' question.

Hope that helps!!! Congradulations! Best wishes!! JR

Now Murky, are you suggesting they get in the tub together?

If your going to ask her to marry you, it can't be centered around SEX. That isn't the reason you want to marry her.

Murky is right that you want to do something she loves doing. What is she interested in?
 

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

Whatever way you feel comfortable.... your nerves will be on edge and you do not need to try to remember any fancy things..... trust me.... that lady will not forget.
 

Kenneth Brown

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

Once again the wrong sex here but you know we're all ignorant here anyhow....

If the relationships serious enough that your ready to marry then she knows it too. It doesn't matter how you ask, she'll be ecstatic anyhow.
 

OldMercsRule

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

Now Murky, are you suggesting they get in the tub together?

I guess me = bad. Yer right; maybe it is a traditional old fashoned no pre martital sex romance. If so: ferget the tub part. Do the same thing with a great dinner right before the desert. Murky has a very dirty brain cell. Bad Bad Bad. :redface:

If your going to ask her to marry you, it can't be centered around SEX. That isn't the reason you want to marry her.

Yup: me bad. :(

Murky is right that you want to do something she loves doing. What is she interested in?

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57whitehouse

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

Once again the wrong sex here but you know we're all ignorant here anyhow....

If the relationships serious enough that your ready to marry then she knows it too. It doesn't matter how you ask, she'll be ecstatic anyhow.

True, but a women (most women) want it special. You know her well, you will do just fine.

The best advise is not to do something someone else would do, she will know if it is your idea or not.
 

snapperbait

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

Just be yourself....Look her in the eye (or eyes, if'n shes got two),and ask her.....
 

Terry Olson

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

If your going to ask her to marry you, it can't be centered around SEX. That isn't the reason you want to marry her.

No doubt - wait until you don't want to have sex with her anymore before you ask her to marry you.

What is the only substance known to man (men - not mankind to be clear) to completely eliminate a woman's sex drive???

WEDDING CAKE!
 

rolmops

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

C'mon you stupid boer.
Ask her out to dinner with some candle light and stuff.
Then while you are waiting for your order to be brought in,sit there while diddling around with a flower in your hands and tell her you had this dream and in that dream you saw your children in her eyes.
If she transmits the warm and fuzzy feeling back to you,go ahead, give her a present (ring) and ask her to marry you.If she is put off by that thought don't proceed and think of a different approach.
If all else fails,get her pregnant.That seems to put most women in a marrying mood.
 

Bass Man Bruce

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

I,m with snapperbait, just be yourself, THAT'S who you want her to marry!
Good Luck!
 

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

If your going to ask her to marry you, it can't be centered around SEX. That isn't the reason you want to marry her.

Huh?? Yeah it is...

Forget about all that complicated stuff. Just send her an email in which you tell her you need an answer to a question. Include a link to this thread. Problem solved.
 

Bob_VT

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

Just be yourself....Look her in the eye (or eyes, if'n shes got two),and ask her.....

I knew a beautiful woman with a lazy eye and it was distracting! If they start to look crossed you might be too close!

Okay here is my wifes comments:
Hi This is Mrs. Bob_VT!
Don't worry about the ring. Even if its not the one she would have picked herself, she will love that you took the time to find one to surprise her with.
As far as the proposal itself, well there are alot of ways you can go with it but remember this is a story she will be asked to tell by all of her friends and most of her family. Bob started his proposal by picking a fight with me first thing in the morning, I left for work in tears, and when we came home he proposed to me while we were changing out of our work clothes. I still said yes! :D You're fiance-to-be might like something a little different though. :rolleyes:Perhaps you could cook her a nice dinner and give her the ring at dessert. A bit of a cliche perhaps but it works. You get extra points if you don't leave the kitchen a mess. Keep it simple and from the heart. Women really don't need a huge display, just being asked by the man we love is generally enough. Good luck! (and let us know how it turns out)
Jenn
 

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

Turin
How ever you do it i hope it goes well.I cant help you because I'm about as romantic as a stick . Just ask my wife he will tell you.
All i ask is bring her by to meet the iboat family. Good luck
 

jimyoung

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me

I like bjcsc' idea.....when I decided to ask my wife (#2)to marry me....I looked her in the eye and said, well Hon, the test drive is over, time to buy car....she caught on pretty quick
Congrats and good luck
 

Haut Medoc

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Re: How to ask my girlfriend to marry me


Do it the old fashioned way.......
Hit her over the head with a rock or stick & drag her back to the cave!......;):D
 
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