Re: Looking for large boaters burn rate
Absolutely go diesel for the use you're describing. I went gas for a few reasons.
1) Only two long trips per year. I run the St. Johns River from Lake Monroe in central Florida north to Jacksonville. Go east to the ICW, then south to Daytona Beach for the summer. I make the return trip in Sept or October. (speaking of which...I'm leaving on this trip tomorrow morning!!)
2) Weekend uses only run me about 10 miles from my home port and back. I generally slow cruise out and plane back most of the way. (BTW, I resent the implication that I'm a "dock condo", marina queen, or any other matching nomenclature.

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3) I can perform almost all maintenance on my gas engines. I know crap about diesels. On an aside, replacement of a diesel longblock will set you back triple $$ of a replacement gas engine. Of course, your life expectancy of the diesel is greater than the gas engine.
Before I purchased mine, I did a lot of powerplant investigating, including talking to owners of both types of vessels. Overwhelmingly, they all voted go gas for my uses. I vote go diesel for yours. But, my opinion is worth exactly what you paid for it.
Whatever you do, shop around for the best boat you can afford. The sour taste left behind by a money pit will far outweigh any fun you have on it.
Best of luck with it!!