Re: More wake?
I also run a 19' sea ray, & in addition to the size of the wake for boarding, you may want to consider your boat's ability to plane quickly & maintain speed in the 15-25mph range. A couple of things that helped me were a hydrofoil & a 5-blade low-pitch prop.
I used to have a 3-blade SS prop with a 19 pitch. I'm now running a stainless merc high-five 5-blade 17 p prop, & a hydrofoil by StingRay. This helps the boat plane very quickly, keeps the nose down, reduces cavitation in turns & generally improves the handling of the boat for watersports. You will, however, sacrifice top end speed with this setup. I dropped from about 50 to 42 mph.
This alone will improve your wake size also, as long as you are trimming up (getting the stern deeper in the water) once you get up to speed.