Re: More why questions.
KB, <br /> <br />I read your post a few days ago and I wasn't going to respond, but I keep finding myself thinking about the words that you posted and I feel the need to respond since no one else has really expressed my view.<br /><br />First, what I'd like to say is that I believe your view of race relations are a little jaded. I understand that you work in law enforcement and I can see why. I have a brother that also works in law enforcement, for the MN state corrections dept and even though he is a liberal his views on race are different than mine. I believe it has to do with the work environment and having to deal with a disproportionate amount of minorities every day.<br /><br />Now I've been on this earth for 45 years and I've never heard anyone call anyone a "white honky" except on the Jeffersons TV program. Maybe in your line of work you get these kind of names hurled your way from your clientele, I don't know. I've never heard "cracker", "whiteboy", or "whitey" for that matter. Again maybe you get that in your line or work, but I don't think the average American has.<br /><br />KB wrote,<br /><br />"But when I call you, ***ger, Kike, Towelhead, Sand-***ger, Camel Jockey, Beaner, Gook, or Chink you call me a racist."<br /><br />Are you saying you actually use these words? Or are you just being provocative?

I can't believe in the year 2006 that people still use these words. Before anyone accuses me of being too self righteous, I'm ashamed to admit that up until about ten years ago all those words were in my everyday vocabulary. I don't know what changed in my life but I can honestly say I don't use any of those racial names anymore. Maybe it was the birth of my first child and I wanted to set a good example for him, or maybe I've become more aware.<br /><br />I believe Ken your using a "straw man" or "straw issue", if you will, to make a point about your true feelings. I don't think they are valid. It seems to me you have and I see this a lot with those of you on the "right" you prop up a false issue so you can easily knock it down. I think the last time I heard anyone use a racial slur, belonging to any race, was probably ten years working in a used car shack. Oh, I take that back my father in-law and brother in-law still do, but what can you do but ignore them. They don't know any better.

<br /><br />In fact, I'll tell a little story. One day when my ten year old was about five, we were ordering from the drive thru at KFC and he asked us why all the workers behind the window had "brown faces". My wife and I not only saw the humor in his question, but we both felt good that up until that time we don't think he realized that people are different. We felt that his use of "brown faces" was because his Mom and Dad never pointed out the differences of race to him before, because we feel it shouldn't matter. And to this day all three of my boys I feel have that same attitude. They all have friends of all different colors and they never have made any distinction.