Re: moring in rough water, any ideas
This isn't mooring, but I've had good luck anchoring in rough conditions with a 10# Navy anchor (Hooker brand) 10' of 3/8 chain and a 7-1 scope of anchor line. 7-1 scope is 7' of anchor line for every 1' of depth, so in 30' of water you want at least 210' of anchor line out.
I have moored like this a couple times also, drop the anchor 200-300' off shore, then play out a doubled over anchor line (one end tied to the boat and the other end free to secure on shore). When you get onshore, pull on the free end and it will pull the boat away from shore. Of course you need another line tied to the boat so you can pull it back to shore. Though, if the waves were as bad as you say, I'd be sweating bullets.
(BTW, I have 700' of anchor line on my 18'er since I boat on big reservoirs, 3-4' waves common, 5'-7' possible)