Overweight 8-Year-Old May Be Taken Into Protective Custody

Plainsman

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Where does it stop? When wiil the government get out of our personal choices and let us truley be free to live as we choose?
 

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They'll have to raise every bodies taxes to feed the kid.
 

Haut Medoc

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That boy needs help.....;)
 

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Plainsman said:
When wiil the government get out of our personal choices and let us truley be free to live as we choose?

When the world explodes and we all cease to exist.
 

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IMO this is child abuse, this woman is to selfish and lazy to give her child decent food, she was quoted on the TV yesterday as saying " If when he comes home from school and there is somthing on the TV I want to watch he will eat a couple packets of biscuits for his tea or I'll give him some money to go to the chip shop".

His doctor has said that if he carries on eating the way he is he will be dead within 3-4years.

Killing a child because you can't be bothered is just the same as killing him through physical abuse.
 

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In the real world both my brothers are handicapped (this is really true)

My younger brother had a heart defect that was corrected BUT resulted in brain damage leaving him with a 70 IQ more or less

Next step he hooks up with a handicapped girl with a heart problem

Next step they get married this requires a lot of work from both families to keep them going nobody liked it but they have rights

Next step baby 1 dies in 5 days

Next step baby 2 dies at 18 months during open heart surgery

Having spent most of my life around handicapped people (ya my older brother is a paranoid mental case from about 14 who has been married twice but that’s a different story

I can’t tell you how common this and I really don’t know what we would have had to do if the children had lived


Tommays
 

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Plainsman said:
Overweight

Where does it stop? When wiil the government get out of our personal choices and let us truley be free to live as we choose?

The boy is 8 y/o. The mother is killing him. If/when the boys dies, everyone will be screaming that nothing was done to save him.

There is a case in Pakistan at the moment about a 17 y/o girl who is fighting in court to have a legal document overturned. That document is an agreement between her father and another man, her father lost her to this other man in a card game. Should the government do something?

What's your solution?
 

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Plainsman said:
Overweight

Where does it stop? When wiil the government get out of our personal choices and let us truley be free to live as we choose?

Sometimes Childrens Social Services can be overzealous, and sometimes things get blown out of proprtion and the child ends up suffering. In this case, the mother is abusing the child. It is no different than if she were beating the child or locking the child in a closet. Abuse is abuse, children cannot defend themselves, it is the responsibility of society as a whole to ensure that children are cared for. This is not an acceptable "choice" for any child. Once a person becomes a parent, they lose the freedom to be selfish idiots, and are then tasked with the job of providing reasonable care for their child. Everything else is secondary. If they can't handle that concept, then they should not have children.
 

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JasonJ said:
Once a person becomes a parent, they lose the freedom to be selfish idiots, and are then tasked with the job of providing reasonable care for their child. Everything else is secondary. If they can't handle that concept, then they should not have children.

That would be the solution to a whole world of ills. If they make an engineer get a specialized education & a license for fear that something they design might fall over & kill people, why can't they make someone who wants to reproduce get a specialized education & a license for fear that they might kill people?
 

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why can't they make someone who wants to reproduce get a specialized education & a license for fear that they might kill people?

That's a good idea, but it's not a law, yet.....
You should have to pass a parenting class to be able to reproduce.......
But until then, we will have to settle for Child Protective Services, or whatever its alphabetic equivalent is.....;)
 

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Geez, somebody feed that fatso a vegetable already.
 

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If you read it they have been trying for a LONG time to just get the kid to see a doctor and get some help


Tommays
 

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Yea, lets take him into CPS custody, he'll be safer there....


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Yup, if his own mother won't get off her fat arse & do anything, then yes.....
The state is damned if they do & damned if they don't.....
I can just see all of the hand wringing & lawsuits if he were to die from morbid obesity.....
Let him keep going & charge the mother with first degree murder when he dies......:|
 

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"He's really at risk of dying by the time he's 30," Waine said.

Pediatrician Dr. Michael Markiewicz agreed.

"I'm not saying they can't care for him, but what they are doing is through the way they are treating him and feeding him, they are slowly killing him," he said.

Connor's case attracted national attention after his mother allowed an ITV News crew to film his day-to-day life over the course of a month.

Connor's mother said he steals and hides food, frustrating her efforts to help him.

"He has double, treble what a normal boy (of his age) would have, but if I didn't give him enough at teatime then he would just go on at us all night for snacks and stuff," she told ITV.

Connor, who lives with his mother and sister, has difficulty dressing and washing himself, misses school regularly because of poor health and is targeted by bullies.

"People pick on us because of my weight. They call us fat. It makes us feel sick of the nutters always shouting at us," Connor told ITV.

Maybe educating the whole family might be a solution. They all need help. Getting them on the right track could save the boy and save the family.
 

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Dunaruna said:
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Plainsman said:
Overweight

Where does it stop? When wiil the government get out of our personal choices and let us truley be free to live as we choose?

The boy is 8 y/o. The mother is killing him. If/when the boys dies, everyone will be screaming that nothing was done to save him.

There is a case in Pakistan at the moment about a 17 y/o girl who is fighting in court to have a legal document overturned. That document is an agreement between her father and another man, her father lost her to this other man in a card game. Should the government do something?

What's your solution?

What law has been broken? He might die by age 30, well so do a lot of people. I agree that the family should maybe change his diet, But where does it stop? No smoke detectors, take the kid because if there were a fire he might perish? Liqour not locked up, he might die of alcohol poisining? Might sound silly to some, not me.
Sure is a lot of "might happens" there.
I don't honestly believe that the family is trying to hurt the child.
All I'm saying is, where does it stop?
My solution, leave them alone. Maybe educate the family and child of why it isn't healthy to be overweight.
 

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Plainsman said:
Maybe educate the family and child of why it isn't healthy to be overweight.

See there guys, there's the solution. In 2007, the family had no idea that being overweight wasn't healthy. Somebody just needs to tell them. Duh.
 

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BoatBuoy said:
Plainsman said:
Maybe educate the family and child of why it isn't healthy to be overweight.

See there guys, there's the solution. In 2007, the family had no idea that being overweight wasn't healthy. Somebody just needs to tell them. Duh.

You'd be suprised how people don't know the truth or refuse to admit it. So your POSITIVE the kid knows that being overweight is not healthly boatboy? Must doing that famous mind reading of yours again, duh.
 

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Eric, my advice is fall back & regroup....
Your positionis untenable....
I strongly advise you to 'Cut & Run!'......:p......JK
 

Haut Medoc

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You'd be suprised how people don't know the truth or refuse to admit it.
This is not the Al Gore Thread.....:)
 
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