I have a 1996 4.3 Mercruiser , I have been reading a few threads with similar but not exact problems to mine. My steering is fairly stiff but becomes worse with the engine running. The pump is new and I have flushed fluid through the lines until all the old fluid was gone and only clean fluid flows. I have looked to see if the wrench flats on the control valve are up and down and they pretty much are. I am leaning toward the actuator as the problem is worse with the engine running , if it was a cable you would think the pump assist would make it a bit easier not harder. there was a guy had a similar problem in the forum but there was no solution posted so I don't know which, if any suggestion helped.