Re: Removing old gel coat
It sounds like you bought & used PAINT from a paint store, there are paint hardeners that can be added to some paints.
If the paint dried sticky it may have been incompatible with the hardener, or just not dry yet.
What paint & hardener? From what PAINT store?
As WOG noted earlier, PAINT is not gelcoat (which is a resin based product).....
However, you mention the PAINT did not have wax in it. That sounds like gelcoat. Un-waxed gelcoat would remain tacky after application.
When it didn't dry, you went back to a PAINT store & bought PAINT w/ wax in it? And applied that over the previously applied & still sticky PAINT?
I don't emphasize the paint in the above to beat you up, it's that it's confusing to possibly have paint & gelcoat mixed up. That makes it unclear as to what you have applied, why it didn't dry properly, and what maybe the best way to resolve it.
If it is peeling up, chipping, or coming loose, until it's removed, and the surface is cleaned of all of the products you've applied, it is unlikely that there will be a 'good, quick or easy' way to improve it's appearance.
Best of luck, and sorry that your 1 post to provide all the answers for all the questions, for me at least, didn't provide enough new information to be of any real help....