Re: roller damage
The Center of Gravity of the boat doesn't change when it's on the trailer...you adjust your bunks on the trailer to move the boat forward or backward to achieve the appropriate tongue weight.
You are correct the CG of the load does not change unless the load itself is altered. What changes is the fulcrum point! The fulcrum point could be and usually is the axle of the whole load. There is also a secondary fulcrum point involved here which is the bottom of the boat and the bunks. If you will notice the picture you posted of your boat the bunks extend past the center of gravity which will move the fulcrum point to the stern. The same is true of all the pictures of the boats on the lifts in the website you posted. The bunks extend well past the CG. On trailers where the bunks do not come to the CG of the boat the fulcrum point becomes the end of the bunk. And the further the fulcrum point moves rearward the CG moves forward placing more downward force on the forward end. It's call physics.
Whether you accept it, like it or not there are a very good number of trailers out in the world, new and used were the bunks do not extend past the CG. Many of them the bunks do not even extend past the axle. Which is why they use so many keel rollers from the center forward. I did not design them but they are there just the same.
Now I have not seen this trailer and I assume neither have you so neither of us can judge what the trailer looks like or how long the bunks are. The only fact known is that the front roller is being crushed. Caused by too much weight upon it. This can only be the result of one of 2 things. 1, the roller is to high and is lifting the bow off the bunks or 2, the bunks are too short of the CG causing more weight to be placed forward.
Also, I personally have never moved a set of bunks to change the CG on a trailer. I personally just move the boats position on the trailer or move the axle. I also do not have any personal stake in which type of trailer some one else uses. That is pure personal preference. As I also do not believe any one type trailer is better or worse than the other I will not argue some one elses preference.