Re: (UPDATE)dateing friends sisters, can it be done?
(UPDATE)<br /><br />The girl was on a trip out of the country for a month, she's been back about a week now.<br /><br />The family, including her brother rented a house on the beach (Hampton beach, NH) for the week.<br /><br />My and a friend have been up twice, and ran into her both times. The first time she was alone, and had really nothing to say, seemed like she was trying to make me feel awkward, she didn't say hardly anything to me, and that was fine, I had kinda wrote her off. Tonight I went back up, with my truck this time, and another riding with me. The girl was with her cousin, and was completely different. I don't think she was drinking or anything, but she was acting like she was. She was all over both me AND my friend. It was almost like she was doing it in a attempt to **** off her brother, I noticed it and backed WAY off, almost to the point of pretending I didn't hear her and stuff. I was like a complete 180, and I think having the cousin on "her side" made a big difference in the way she was acting, almost like she doesn't have the balls to act like that on her own. Another thing REALLY took me back, her and her cousin took a shower TOGETHER!!! I couldn't believe it! It it wasn't like they where in and out real quick, they where in the bathroom for a while! I don't know about other people, but I don't find this normal at all, and if I was her father I'd put an end to it. <br /><br />Later on after the sister and cousin went out, I decided to get going, me and my buddy are in my Bronco, in traffic making our way away from the beach. The place was packed, and all the sudden the sister walks towards my truck. I kept slowly moving and said I was tired and had to get home (about 50mins away) and I left.<br /><br />Now I have no idea what to think. Every time I see her she seems to be in a different mood, tonight she was acting like she wanted me to pork her, but who knows what tomorrow will be like? She's 18 and I'm 16 and I act a lot more mature then she does. I talked to the brother about it and he agreed. He knows where I'm coming from and I think he'd understand if I got involved with her, maybe almost be happy that someone was trying to controll her, like I would. He is nothing like her, him and I agree on most things and are really a lot a like, I dont think it would be a prolbem with him. He trusts me.<br /><br />Right now I just don't know, I don't trust her enough to do anything with her, or tell her anything. I think I'm going to take a ride back up there tomorrow night, I'd like to talk to her in private, when she's alone and not influenced by anyone.<br />Shes the type of girl who if I didnt know her bother and parents, shed be fun to mess around with on the side, but I woundt do that to the brother, so its either gonna be all or nothing, after tonight's episode Im leaning towards nothing. On the ride back I was talking about it with my other friend (not her brother) he's one of the few people who knows the whole story and thinks I should stay away.<br /><br />Anyone sick of hearing about this yet?<br />I sure sick of thinking about it all the time!
