Re: Went to a 4blade
Yes a drop in pitch (with your current 4,000 4 blade) will definitely get you better hole shot, and MIGHT get you 1-2 mph more top end.
I find it highly unlikely you will EVER see 45 mph wtih that 3.0L engine in your boat. With any prop. Not enough HP for your particular hull...period.
Frankly that 3 blade 19 you are running sounds very good for your application.
All things being equal, usually a 4 blade will accellerate faster than a 3 blade, but a 4 blade will be slower than a 3 blade on top speed. Since you seem to put priority on top speed, I think shopping for performance 3 blades would be better for you.
You haven't shared brand, model, material of these props you're trying. Also makes a big difference.
But a 3.0L is a 3.0L, no matter how you slice it.