whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

ezbtr

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They let her sit on the top of 2 flights of stairs, and plop her in their lap in front seat when they driving???? And the dad has 2 others? Geez they seem like sane people but what the hell?
 

bigdee

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Re: whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

Yeah,I don't understand it either. You have to be qualified and have a license to drive a car,work on an air conditioner, unclog a sewer.....but there are no regulations for spitting out babies.
 

T_Herrod

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Re: whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

Anyone who sits a young child anywhere but an approved child seat in my sight gets an earful about being responsible parents. It doesn't matter if i know them or not. It's not just unsafe for the child but it's illegal.
 

ezbtr

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Re: whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

Anyone who sits a young child anywhere but an approved child seat in my sight gets an earful about being responsible parents. It doesn't matter if i know them or not. It's not just unsafe for the child but it's illegal.

yeah I'm gonna have a word with them - idiots.....grrrrr
 

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Re: whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

yeah I'm gonna have a word with them - idiots.....grrrrr

Actually if you do be careful

a young child up front in a vehicle w/o a car seat - just call 911........... done deal

I am just going to guess this is related to your ex?
 

ezbtr

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Re: whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

Actually if you do be careful

a young child up front in a vehicle w/o a car seat - just call 911........... done deal

I am just going to guess this is related to your ex?

No, actually new neighbors, just saw them at the store a few days ago leaving parking lot, hmm didnt know i could call 911 for that...
 

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Re: whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

yeah I'm gonna have a word with them - idiots.....grrrrr

Yeah, be carefull with that you might get deeper than you wanted. Although they deserve someone to step in and tell them something let the cops handle it.
 

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Re: whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

Yup a LEO issue and considering they are neighbors....... ask that your identity on the reported incident be protected and anonymous

Look at this PDF http://www.carseat.org/Legal/99_Enf.pdf

You want that kid to grow up and maybe be mowing your lawn in 15 years!
 

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Re: whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

Yup a LEO issue and considering they are neighbors....... ask that your identity on the reported incident be protected and anonymous

Look at this PDF http://www.carseat.org/Legal/99_Enf.pdf

You want that kid to grow up and maybe be mowing your lawn in 15 years!

Can they mow our lawn too please. Nobody else seems to want to while I am away :facepalm:
 

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Re: whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

I think it's even worse than irresponsibility. My wife is a 2nd grade teacher and from conversations with her I've come to the conclusion that a lot of these parents today don't have the instincts built-in naturally, that most of acquired. I know there's no "service manual" when it comes to children, but for eons, logic has derived from instinct in making choices involving our children. If that foundation isn't there, you end up with situations (and much worse) like letting a 2 year old play on the top step of 2 flights of stairs or ride without a child seat. In an attempt at appeasement, they have no idea they're endangering their kids and most would be distraught if something horrible resulted from their choices, but I'mnot so 100% sure they'd ever realize that it was, in fact, their own fault.

We're developing a world that's all about "me" and "where's mine" and that's just not conducive to proper caring for others, to include our own children. At the risk of sounding like my father (who, by the way gets smarter every year), I worry about what is to come.
 

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Re: whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

I hear what your saying but... Amazingly most of us made it through childhood without all the "safety" stuff we see being pushed.

You, and the rest of the folks in this forum from the pre car seat days made it. What about all the kids that got tossed around during an accident, and didn't make it? Not to mention the highway speeds in most areas are higher now than in those days. People are driving greater distances, and are far more distracted doing it thanks to their Iphone, Ipod, eye liner, etc.

I see poor parenting all the time in the town I work in. Not uncommon to see a 3 year old pedaling their bike with training wheels down busy streets, weaving all over the sidewalk, with mommy 30 feet behind them. :eek:
 

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Re: whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

Seat belts and car seats work. And I would never let a 2 or 3 year old mow my lawn. Next topic?
 

Bigprairie1

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Re: whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

Keeping or trying to keep toddlers safe is as old as the hills...and certainly the kids you mentioned here Heinz should be watched a little closer.
However, if a huge percentage of the population really cared about their kids (and you have to wonder if they really do)....they'd keep them off the pop, junk food and fast food and pry them off the couch and the game console ....so they weren't 150lbs at the age of 12 and dead at 58 of heart failure.
.....maybe start them mowing the neighbourhood lawns at.....lets say 12-13yrs old (I think that when I started 'commercially':D;)....then again, try putting that idea out to many modern moms or parents:eek:
BP:)
 

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Re: whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

I think some things go to far in the name of safety... but all in all, I'm glad things aren't like they used to be.
 
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Re: whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

in the good old days you didnt have airbags. place your hand at the top of the wheel in a small front impact (as low as 15mph) the airbag blows and you punch your own teeth out.....place a 2 year in front of the bag and you teeth are the least of your worries. i hate to be a kill joy but things have changed over the years and what was ok when we was kids is not ok now.
 

Bigprairie1

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Re: whats with irresponsible parents of a 2-3 yr old???

....air bags???....car crash testing?....am I in the right thread? does someone have a flashlight?:D:D
Maybe we can back on the trail;):)
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