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[rogerwa]

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Here is advice from somebody who hasn't dated in well over 17 years.. and don't forsee dating in the future..<br /><br />FWIW... Be honest about your intentions. If you are just taking it easy, be honest that you are not necessarily seeking a permanent partner but may be open down the line.. If both of you get the feeling things are heading toward booty be honest about what it means.<br /><br />If you are constantly looking in the rearview mirror wondering what your "ex" will think, you may not be ready..

 

[magster65]

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I'm not looking in the rear-view <br />It's in my past and that's where it stays... trust me! I don't care what she thinks, I was just wondering, in general, what looks like a 'rebound' to you folks.<br />That is sound moral advice about being honest. I will be... and I expect the same in return. I still want to get married one day... I always wanted the 'story book' wedding and family. Now that I am here, I guess in my 'story book' the first few chapters are different than the original. That's ok. For today and tomorrow I want to spend my time with someone that has the same or similar values and ideas as myself. It has to be someone that I could see myself marrying or there's no point. Soccer mom? Maybe, I want to find out and at the same time... she's a pretty lady to... explore hehe, yeah, explore. From our meeting at Halloween, she thinks like I do and wants the same in the future... except for the 'looking for a pretty lady' part

 

[MYTJC]

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Mag,your story is similiar to mines the only differance is my GF is moving out of our place because of respect issue with her son. He's been living with us since his dad went to jail. The dad got released ans skipped town so we have to take him into our place. No bigge to me but i grew up with a single mom and she enforced us not to lie and steal. Always said " a man is not a man if he cant keep his word", it stuck to me in my adulthood and i beleive it that to this day. Since he's been livng with us he stole from me several times and lies to his mom all the time but her being mom she gives into him very easy. since he's the issue she's decided to move out and get a place for her and her kids (she has a 20 YO daughter) that lives with us also. To make a long story short it comes down to "RESPECT". He got none and now she's moving out next week into her new place. I tried to explain she's sending the wrong message and now my relationship is on hold Until further notice. She's my soulmate and to watch her leave me makes me wonder about loyalty. I'm not trying to be the kids dad, only trying to guide him down the right path. He's already been to juvy and stayed over a year. So i wonder if i should break it off or pray things work out for the best and one day we can together as one family. This is going to be my time to really think about what i want in a relationship. Its a sad ending to wonderful 3 years 11 months...

 

[magster65]

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MYTJC - That's a hard one to swallow.<br /><br />OK, Ya' gotta' hear this one.<br />I've met soccer mom a few times now and all seemed well. Last night was the first time we got a chance to meet away from the kids so I invited her and a couple other buds (1 guy and 1 gal) over to my place for a drink. My 'gal' friend has a son on the same team as my nephew and soccer mom's son. So soccer mom and my 'gal' friend are pretty good freinds (I didn't know that) and were having a great time... laughing and joking... good times right? Well, they drank their 2 bottles of wine, finished off one I had open and proceeded into my liquor cabinet for a few more. They actually dumped rum out of my bottle into one of their empty wine bottles on the way out so they could stay up drinking for a few more hours at one of their places (I was tired). Yeah, classy moves ladies. There was a message on my answering machine when I got home today from soccer mom apologizing and explaining how embarrassed she is. She says she's not like that and she was just excited and got buzzed... blah blah blah.<br />I'll pose it as a question... another chance or no? I'm leaning towards no but she could've had an off night I guess. What's your take? Another nightmare? Another date?

 

[Bondo]

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When should I start dating again ?

Just as Soon as the Door Hit Her in the A$$.......................

 

[RubberFrog]

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Did you get laid yet?

 

[PW2]

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Buy a golden retriever.<br /><br />They don't cause much of a fuss, but if they ever do get too far out of line, you can just shoot them without getting into too much trouble.

 

[rolmops]

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Sounds like that one could be a lot of fun,scary though.Next time,make sure she gets drunk with you,not with her girlfriend.

 

[brother chris]

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Originally posted by magster65:<br /> MYTJC - That's a hard one to swallow.<br /><br />OK, Ya' gotta' hear this one.<br />I've met soccer mom a few times now and all seemed well. Last night was the first time we got a chance to meet away from the kids so I invited her and a couple other buds (1 guy and 1 gal) over to my place for a drink. My 'gal' friend has a son on the same team as my nephew and soccer mom's son. So soccer mom and my 'gal' friend are pretty good freinds (I didn't know that) and were having a great time... laughing and joking... good times right? Well, they drank their 2 bottles of wine, finished off one I had open and proceeded into my liquor cabinet for a few more. They actually dumped rum out of my bottle into one of their empty wine bottles on the way out so they could stay up drinking for a few more hours at one of their places (I was tired). Yeah, classy moves ladies. There was a message on my answering machine when I got home today from soccer mom apologizing and explaining how embarrassed she is. She says she's not like that and she was just excited and got buzzed... blah blah blah.<br />I'll pose it as a question... another chance or no? I'm leaning towards no but she could've had an off night I guess. What's your take? Another nightmare? Another date?

Another date? Sure, have another date, but by no means, get involved with her. <br />People just don't pour rum into another bottle so they can have "one to go", or "one for later". <br /> I am sure she is quite experienced with Captain Morgan. At least it sounds like it to me. <br />Be careful Magster.

 

[Barbee Q]

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Hay Magster you need a nice little vacation... WHOM ... Where to Go?.... I know..... How about a trip to California?? Hee Hee.<br /><br />Oh shoot your on a budget.. . <br /> Well ebay has specials on tickets and I'm alone for Thanksgiving.. <br />I swear if Thanksgiving is nice I'm taking my boat to the lake, wanna go?

 

[Dunaruna]

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Send him the tickets

 

[aspeck]

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Mag, you want an honest answer? Then forget about dating. Forget about going out, unless it is with your son. Learn to be friends with others without the "date" word attached to it. View them from a distance without emotional and physical attachment. Learn how they handle their money, their liquor, their free time. See how they deal with stress, anger, etc. GET TO KNOW THE PERSON. Then, if she seems like she is a match to you and your son, and only then, consider a date.<br /><br />This takes time, patients, and you will need to be secure in yourself - enough that your satisfaction and fulfillment is not in a girlfriend, but in your self and family unit. Then you will be ready to date again - with a close friend that will become your soulmate.

 

[magster65]

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On Saturday afternoon soccer mom calls me back. She asks me and the others we were with over to her place for a visit. I said ok and went over. Everything was cool until... guess what? Right, the wine was a-flowing once again. She proceeded to get drunk again and (I found out later that) at some point during the 'visit' she told my buddy that I was 'the perfect guy for her' and she was going to spend her life with me... this is a person I've only met a handful of times. Anyways, my other soccer-mom friend was sitting next to me as we chatted and the crazy lady comes out of the kitchen yelling and screaming at us. She said I was cheating on her and the other soccer mom was a sl*t. I looked at my buddy and nodded. He knew right away. Time to hit the road! She called me a couple times on Sunday with more apologies but I told her to go get a 'shrink' and don't call me anymore. My son and I don't need a drunken psycho in our lives.<br />So, anyone looking for a drunken psycho woman I can pass you along her number

 

[LadyFish]

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Glad you ran for your life and that of your sons Magster.

 

[Haut Medoc]

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Well at least you didn't have to waste your time! ....JK

 

[magster65]

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Originally posted by RubberFrog:<br /> Did you get laid yet?

I don't usually kiss and tell but... <br />I might be headin' to Red Bluff, California to meet this little hottie. If everything goes well I'll post details, pictures and maybe a video or two.

 

[QC]

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LOL @ mags. Keep an eye out for that one too I can see it now, new name for the Tolly . . . TubToy

 

[Haut Medoc]

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It's confirmed....You, sir are a tramp... Or this is a match made in IHEAVEN!...She don't drink & will chop wood....So she's aces with me!....JK

 

[roscoe]

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LOL @ PW2, get a retriever !! I knew you leaned a little to the liberal, but thats going a bit too far for north of the Mason Dixon line.

 

[magster65]

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Originally posted by J.kopec:<br /> It's confirmed....You, sir are a tramp... Or this is a match made in IHEAVEN!...She don't drink & will chop wood....So she's aces with me!....JK

What are ya' tryin' to say fancy-pants?<br />She's too good for me?