Re: Wiring Nightmare for a beginner.....
But could someone please tell me if a negative and positive bus is what I need? Could I just use a neg bus for the grounds and hook the hot wires into the fuse box?
I agree with scca vette, thats its not neccesary, but thinking through the setup will likely make your installation easier ang give you more options in the future. A lot depends on the fuse block you select, etc.
The fuse blocks scc vette showed for example dosent have a single input cable (coming form the battery), but instead requires each load cable to be split out. The lug with small terminals like you posted a pic of near the top of this thread would make that type of fuse block much more workable.
Also, with one of the breakerized panels I posted near the top you wouldnt need a fuse block at all, just a single line into the switch panel (although a lug in the console still could be useful for futur additions). From there the wiring provided with the panel goes right to a $5 terminal block from which you can connect any load wiring to... then you never have to wory about fuses.
There is no set in stone "right" way to do it. With experiance comes the ability to plan ahead and know what you might want during install, or a year down the road when you want to add an amp and sub, or spreader lights, or a margarita/daiquiri machine... you know... the essentials.