If I didn't reduce the starter and as long as I don't turn it over too long, the 12V won't hurt the starter? Or is it better to get another resistor and do it right?
The starter's solenoid? If it's a 6V solenoid and you power it with 12V, it'll get pretty hot in fast order....you could get away with it but for how long??? I'll say "Not forever!!"

You could get a 12V two wire marine grade starter solenoid pretty easy and just use a resistor for the choke.
Or better yet, get the 12V two wire marine grade starter solenoid AND get a 12V choke and do away with the resistors all together? Perhaps it's a stock/classic boat thing and that's why the effort to not mod too much?
Another question, can't I run both circuits through 1 resistor with a one wire starter solenoid?
Your stock 6V starter's solenoid actuation coil appears hardwired internally to the battery + terminal (by the drawing anyway) and your boat is wired to actuate it through the series combination of the mercury switch and a throttle switch that when both are closed, they complete a ground to energize the starter's solenoid to start.
Your choke solenoid on the other hand then appears to be frame mounted/grounded type (by the drawing anyway) and uses a positive voltage to actuated it.
I really don't see how to use only one resistor to accommodate both circuits (low side solenoid and high side choke) as they currently exist and as they currently wired in your setup, no........
BTW, Thank you all very much for the responses!!!
You're very welcome
Here's a picture of the boat/trailer I'm restoring. 1956 Larson Pla-Boy 14- fiberglass. I ordered a power tilt/trim for it which is the reason for the 12V conversion so I don't have to carry 2 batteries.
It's beautiful!!! Wow......